What are the best communication techniques for bridging the sexual gap between couples

It is not an easy task for two independent individuals to write love exercises together. The various details of emotional life may accumulate into unresolved problems through neglect, ultimately leading to a situation where we have to separate. Even the most intimate two people may not understand your heart with just one glance. Many times, it is still necessary for both parties to communicate sincerely in order to adjust to a harmonious and joyful emotional state. Love is falling into; Love comes from management. The following is a personal practice of gender communication skills, providing reference for everyone, hoping to promote harmonious partnership.

1、 To communicate well, first find the right time:

Timing is really important, but many people overlook it. Have you ever had the urge to 'I want to talk to you now' and insist on having the other person communicate with you no matter where they are doing something? In my experience, communicating at the wrong time cannot achieve communication results. For example, I personally dislike communicating at the dinner table, especially when it comes to negative things. I believe that meal time is a time to enjoy delicious food, and it is also after many arguments that the other party finally understands. Do not disturb the dining mood and appetite with anything. Some people do not like to communicate before bedtime, while others do not like to communicate while driving. Finding the right time to communicate will not make the other party resist, but can truly achieve the purpose of communication.

2、 Think about the key points of communication and not lose focus:

It is best to think clearly about the key points you want to communicate before communicating, to avoid losing focus. The common mistake many people make is to involve irrelevant personnel and materials in the topic of communication, and the listener will be confused: "Is what you are saying related to this matter?" Then they gradually lose patience and even develop negative emotions. Present the results you want to communicate first, then state the reasons and provide solutions. Sometimes adjusting the order of speaking can also promote communication effectiveness. For example, "I hope to have dinner together a few days a week, but because your overtime hours are not fixed, sometimes I will be hungry and wait for you or finish eating before you say we want to eat together. Why don't you give me a message every evening and tell me if I will work overtime

3、 Cut through old accounts and avoid mentioning these words:

The practice of flipping through old accounts usually only exacerbates conflicts and does not provide substantial assistance for the current problem to be resolved through communication. It is best to avoid some vocabulary when communicating, such as "you always..." and "you also... last time." Hearing these words makes it easy for the other party to rebound and refute, "I didn't do it every time," and "I didn't do it last time," which can turn communication into emotional excuses and debates. If the situation persists and the other party has not improved, be patient and do not scold like a child. Instead, use a supportive tone. For example, "I think this matter seems to be a habit that you can't change, and it seems to have affected my life and our relationships. Would you like to talk to me and let's work together to see how we can improve it

When interacting with both genders, one is not afraid of problems and friction, and the most frightening thing is the inability to find a way to communicate or even the lack of willingness to communicate. As long as one is willing to communicate, there is a possibility of maintaining relationships. Therefore, in order to manage love well, everyone should learn communication skills and not avoid communication!