Post Date December, 03 2023
It is very important to accompany us through the other half of life. I don't remember who said that the taste of a man is to choose his wife. A man chooses what kind of woman to be his life partner, which is equal to choosing how to live his life. Some women can make men feel at ease in their careers; But there are also some women who can make men feel overwhelmed and don't know what to do. For women, choosing a good man is equal to choosing a new life. The same is true for men. So, in the eyes of men, what is a good wife? Let's go into the inner world of men and listen to their voices.
1. A good wife should be kind
As the old saying goes, human nature is good. But as the society becomes more and more complex, many people are gradually losing their kindness due to some factors acquired in the process of growth. Once a person loses his basic goodness, he will become very terrible. This is especially true for women. Therefore, kindness is the most important standard for a man to think of a good wife. Kindness is the most important character of a good woman and also the most basic premise. A kind woman must be a good woman. But a woman who is not kind will not be a good woman.
2. Emotional single-mindedness
There are too many temptations in the world. Many women can't help these temptations and leave the men who have experienced ups and downs with themselves. Therefore, for men, emotional specificity is another criterion for a good woman. Only a woman who is single-minded and can withstand money and appearance confusion is a good woman who is worth living with. Therefore, men often hope that their wife is a single-minded woman. In love, a wife should be loyal to her marriage and husband, which is a natural behavior from the heart.
3. Gentle, considerate and feminine
A gentle and considerate woman will make all men crazy. Now the pressure of society is too great, and when returning home, a gentle and considerate woman will make men feel particularly moved and considerate, and feel that no amount of hard work is worth it. Of course, women have to be feminine, but now many women are not feminine, but a kind of overbearing vulgar smell. They are not gentle, considerate, and speak in a rude voice. All day long, they complain and nag. The yellow face and the male woman are careless, and they don't know what it is to play coquettish, so women make people look upset, let alone let men die.
4. A virtuous woman is the most attractive
In a man's heart, a good wife must be very virtuous. But nowadays, there are fewer and fewer virtuous women, and more and more self-righteous female tigers. They can't cook food, can't bring children, can't keep a house, and can also waste money. They treat people in a mess. Don't say it's a man's good wife's help. If she can not make trouble, she will be good. Her husband is called "tracheitis", and she is very proud. Such women really make people laugh and cry. They have no self-knowledge, and sooner or later they will be rejected by men. Women are becoming more and more rare. Men can't help loving virtuous women. Having a good wife at home is a man's greatest happiness.
5. Be kind to your mother-in-law
The relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law has always been a difficult problem. The man is caught between his wife and his mother, which is really difficult. Filial piety is the first. A woman who doesn't understand filial piety even the elders can never be a good woman. Respect for the old and care for the young is the most basic human nature. Otherwise, it can only be a snake poison woman's heart, and men can't avoid it. After all, there are only a few people who do not respect the elderly at all. Most of the time, women are more filial to their parents and treat their parents-in-law with a different face. Women think they are very smart, but they are really smart. Men are caught in the middle and difficult to behave. One side is parents, the other side is wife. After being sad, women will eventually lose the heart of men.
Many women will think that such requirements will be too harsh. What are men doing? In fact, a good woman or a good man is not measured by any rigid standard. There is no real compulsion between husband and wife, but a conscious behavior, understanding and tolerance. Both men and women should work hard to do themselves well, so that the relationship can enter a virtuous circle and let each other work together to grow old.
(Intern editor: Lai Jiaxing)
