Post Date December, 03 2023
"Men and women are different. This sentence is so popular that even elementary school students know it, but when applied to practice, it needs to be carefully pondered.". Men and women who focus on different aspects of the same issue may reach diametrically opposite conclusions. During the dating process, men and women have different psychological experiences, and their behaviors vary greatly from the beginning of dating to the gradual determination of the relationship. Do you know what men are muttering in their minds when dating?
Falling in love with you at first sight
With the development of technology, we should have more time to fall in love, but the fact is that urban men and women not only need to work longer hours, but also the distance between their places of residence and work is becoming increasingly distant. Some surveys even suggest that the time allowed for them to do whatever they want is only 22.3 minutes per day. Women need 21.2 minutes to determine what to wear; Men need 18.7 minutes to tidy their hair and shave. The actual idle time is 1.1 minutes and 3.6 minutes, respectively. Of course, the above statement is somewhat exaggerated, but you have to admit that dating is a time-consuming thing.
In order to improve the hit rate, 57% of men met their partner through a friend introduction, 31% met at a bar or party, and 12% chose to date a work partner. Once a man wants to approach a woman, most of them take the initiative to invite her. Achieving this step is not difficult, as long as it is not timid or high self-esteem, it should be possible to achieve it in a relaxed state of mind.
The remaining 1% will think of unexpected ways. For men, the first date is very important, and there are not a few men who have the mindset of settling things once. "If his first invitation is rejected, he will lose confidence greatly, and it is likely that he will try his luck with another woman.". It would be a big mistake to think that men are all brown candy and have indomitable beliefs. Not every man has strong nerves that can withstand "devastation". They are equally afraid of setbacks, fear of being ruthlessly rejected, and are easily trapped in a conditioned reflex to protect themselves.
If the first date goes well, a man will think that the relationship between the two people will likely grow well in the next few days. On the contrary, if a woman is not impressed on her first date, she will disappear and never hear from again. Due to the habitual assumption that there is no second opportunity, men tend to appear courteous on their first date. Therefore, if the woman has the sincerity to accept the man, she should give a hint accordingly. If you are insensitive or hesitant, and cannot convey the message "I also think you are good" to the other party in a timely manner, and do not create conditions conducive to action for the men, perhaps the relationship between the two people may not make progress in the end. To be blunt, there are more and more pampered men who are too shy and not good at contacting women. Such men often expect women to take the initiative.
Catalysts for deepening relationships
When dating to a certain extent, men will first consider taking the relationship further. It is said that men are lower body animals, and some even say that when dating, they always consider the timing of kissing. This statement is not excessive. 58% of men believe that if we really hit it off, having intimate contact on our first date won't reduce my love for her, 21% think three dates are better, and 21% think more than six. Generally speaking, when they harbor certain intimate intentions, they first want to understand each other's thoughts, and also try to convey their favorable feelings to each other.
The first condition for intimate contact is mutual affection. Too bold. It's not good to be slapped by a woman or pour wine on your face in public. Men are definitely sensitive and scheming old foxes when it comes to testing the minds of women. When watching a movie, it is common to pretend to accidentally touch the woman's hand or confirm her reaction by making slight physical contact such as touching her knee close to her knee. In a bar, sitting side by side facing the bar counter has the same effect. Feel her attitude through seemingly accidental contact between shoulders. If the woman immediately pulls back her hand or knee, it can be concluded that she has no intention of further development, at least not yet. On the contrary, if she doesn't avoid it, it means there's a drama. After confirmation, how to implement the action? Extending your date is a top priority. Suggest eating dessert after dinner, taking a walk together, or taking your partner home. Once such an invitation is made, it can basically be concluded that he is drunk and his intention is not to drink.
