Post Date December, 03 2023
Men are free and romantic, and have the desire to explore the female body. Therefore, after interacting with women, they can't wait to get to know each other deeply, while women have sex from love, and they give up after half of the men's rhetoric. The first woman of a man rarely becomes his last woman, but he wants to be the first man of the other party when he gets married. Typically, the government only allows the people to set fire and not light the lamp. In this era of more and more open sex, premarital sex is not uncommon. Men do not control their sexual behavior, but hope that their wife is a virgin. This idea has always been oppressed in their hearts. Although most men say that they don't care if their wife is not a virgin, they still hope that their wife is pure and flawless in their hearts, and that they are her first man, completely belong to their own woman, and allow themselves to expand their territory.
Men want to be the first man of the other party, while women want to be the last woman of the other party. This difference in the concept of chastity has existed since ancient times. In ancient times, men had three wives and four concubines, and men could have several women, while decent women could only be owned by one man from head to foot, and their chastity was almost harsh and abnormal. Although the feminist movement and the society call for equality between men and women, the idea of thousands of years can not be changed overnight. Nowadays, men all envy ancient men and can have three wives and four concubines. Many Marvin can satisfy men's psychology. A man always dominates animals with a strong desire. He wants to control his own women as he likes, and he wants to be admired by his own women. Therefore, if the other party is a virgin, then the man can play freely without fear because of comparison. The other side has no sexual experience, and the men occupy the dominant position, which will make their self-confidence expand and be satisfied.
In the end, men's virginity complex also hides a deep unease, that is, they fear that if the other party is not a virgin, they may be deeply affected by past sexual experience, deeply branded by the sexual habits of former boyfriends, and will be too mature in sexual aspects. They can't stand their women comparing him with her former men in terms of sex, which is related to their lack of confidence in sex. Men's sexual behavior is largely dominated by emotions, and women's casual blow will make them suspicious. Especially in bed, he was afraid that he could not satisfy the needs of women who had already had sex, and he was afraid that he was not as good as her former man and lost confidence. Especially if women refuse to communicate sexy thoughts after sex, they will think more nonsense, even become extreme.
Both the man and the beloved woman are in high spirits. They take off their clothes and prepare to go to the base. As long as the man asks, "She won't try many tricks", "Did she ever fall in love with a man who is better at me before?" or "Will she think I am clumsy?", as long as he has such thoughts, his body will naturally be affected by these ideas and become powerless. If the other party is a virgin, even if it fails, it will not have this worry. You can just find an excuse to prevaricate, because the other party has no sexual experience, and there is no man to compare with him. If the other party has rich sexual experience, men tend to lack confidence and stop or run away. This will undoubtedly make his male self-esteem unacceptable. This is a slap in the face of his male self-esteem. His face has disappeared and he is embarrassed. Even if he is willing to show up next time, he cannot fully participate because of this layer of concern, and his performance is more embarrassing. One failure leads to many subsequent failures, forming a vicious circle.
This may only be due to subjective assumptions of men. However, men do have this fear that after a woman has sex with a man, her body will leave traces of the man, which will last for a long time. In other words, what men are worried about is that after the relationship between men and women, the woman will become the private property of the man, and will never forget the "tenderness" and will always be persistent to him. Men are sexual animals. If they feel that sex fails to others, they will feel very embarrassed.
If the other party is a virgin, then the sex is completely described by himself. He is like the giant standing on the top of the mountain, galloping on the women. He doesn't have to worry about the other party's feeling that he can't do it, and he doesn't have to worry about the other party's comparing himself with others. The other party is completely his own, and he can control at will. The woman's reliance on his leadership because of her innocence will greatly satisfy his male self-esteem. Even if you do not perform well, the other party will not complain, especially because the first time the woman will be too happy to compare, and the next time the man will be full of confidence.
As long as men's sexual ability is still fluctuating, and they are still very concerned about sexual ability, then the pure female complex will not disappear. Is it forever buried in men's psychology. Men's virginity complex, in the final analysis, is only the reason for men's lack of self-confidence.
