Post Date April, 15 2023
In "Journey to the West", Stephen Chow once said a classic line: There was once a sincere love placed in front of me, and I didn't cherish it. Only when I lost it did I realize that I couldn't regret it. The most painful thing in the world is this. If God could give me another chance, I would say three words to that girl: I love you. If I had to add a deadline to this love, I hope it would be ten thousand years. This line deeply reminds us that missing a loved one is the most painful and regrettable thing in life. And when we encounter emotional problems like Sun Dasheng, do we choose to leave quietly and leave behind a hint of regret? Or is it brave to say I love you to save love? I believe many friends will choose the latter. So how to salvage a relationship and bring back the loved one? Here are some useful ways to save love. May I wish you a helping hand.
To save love, take the right medicine.
Breaking up due to emotional breakdown is like a sudden strange illness. It is definitely not feasible to seek medical treatment for the disease if you want to cure it. We must start from the root, find the source of emotional breakdown, repair it, and wait for it to heal slowly before love has a chance to bloom and bear fruit. And these are all things that the parties need to discover on their own, discovering conflicts, misunderstandings, concerns, and other issues in the relationship, and then applying the right medicine to the situation. Through self change, they can remove the obstacles that stand in the way of love, in order to successfully retrieve love.
Redemption of love, secondary attraction.
The spark of love that two people can ignite in the vast sea of people is all due to the word "attraction", which creates a palpitating heart. And now her departure only proves that you have no attraction to her at all. Perhaps you are still the same person as you were, but the magic you attracted to her in the past has long been lost. The feeling of fatigue after being in love makes people suffer greatly. It makes them feel that the other person is no longer so important, and getting entangled again can harm everyone. Therefore, one party decisively chooses to let go first, which is why many couples break up. There is only one way to solve this situation, which is to work hard, work hard, and work hard again to enrich one's life circle and make life colorful; Strive to discover oneself and enhance one's own value; Work hard and see hope in the future. When you are strong enough, with your own halo, to become a high-quality lover and then try to reunite, the other party will realize that you are so excellent, saving love while also improving yourself. Why not do it?
Retrieve love, measure love.
In fact, love is a strange thing. Sometimes, even if you put in your heart, it may not necessarily bring out the flowers you want. This is not because our methods of redemption are wrong, but because love is not something that one person can hold up. Some people may not have to do anything, just wait quietly, go around and they will still come back to you, because those who love you will never leave, they will always love you instead of loving you. So when saving love, we also need to learn to have reservations. Don't walk the same path until it's dark and still refuse to give up. Perhaps letting go early and loving someone worth your love with your passion may be the best way to save love.
A person's life is long and long, and we will encounter and miss many people and things in life. Therefore, we should understand that when saving love, we should not only focus on giving and understanding, but also know how to measure love and the efforts made for it. This may seem selfish, but you always have to believe that the person who pretends to sleep can't wake you up. No matter how much someone doesn't love you do, they can only move themselves. And the most useful way to save love, I think, is "Have you tried
