I have never been short of women around me, but it's just about sex. Even now, I can't remember their names. "In the eyes of friends, Chen Jun, a 30 year old real estate salesperson (pseudonym), never brought his girlfriend to public appearances. In fact, despite the constant presence of beautiful women around him, he has no feelings for them.
In the survey, Chen Jun admitted that he mainly relies on money to meet his physiological needs. Usually, they pay to leave after completing the task, and there is no emotional exchange. A bar is Chen's second way to solve the problem. There are many people there who are as lonely as me. "He played a" one night stand "with them, waking up scattered and never having a second relationship.
I can't remember how many sexual partners I have, "Chen Jun is very frank. He has had a sexually transmitted disease and although he has been cured, he often worries that it will affect his future children.
At present, he has no plans to get married. The main reason is that he doesn't love anyone. His last love happened 5 years ago, when his beloved girlfriend left him because he was busy with his career all day.
Psychological counselor's comment: This type of "love incompetence" is more common among single people who have experienced emotional setbacks. Their only 'sexual' lifestyle is harmful to both men and women, including accidental pregnancy and the spread of sexually transmitted diseases. Moreover, this approach only brings about the primary stage of physical happiness, and in terms of spirit, it will feel empty.
(Intern Editor: Cai Junyi)