Post Date December, 02 2023
With the opening up of society, single men are becoming more and more expensive and tend to be older. Although many men dream of a beautiful marriage like Wu Qilong and Liu Shishi, they ignore the gap between themselves and Liu Shishi. You want to find a man like that, but a woman like that may not necessarily like an uncle like you.
"Wait, wait, wait, and year after year, I've seen other people's children grow older, and I'm still a single dog.". So I'm considering what others say is lowering standards. Do you have to lower standards to find true love as you age?
First of all, you can set a time to consider whether to lower it.
If you are really not willing to lower your standards, then since you have been waiting for so many years, there is no need to rush for the next year or two. You set a time for yourself, such as two or three years. If you haven't met the girl of your dreams in these two or three years, then at this time, you should consider that your age may not be able to wait for your true love.
"It's not that you're unwilling to wait, but that you have many other factors to consider.". For example, the optimal childbearing period is very good for a man between 26 and 32. It is difficult to say whether your child will be healthy in the future if you procrastinate too long. Therefore, in order to avoid waiting too long in the future, you can set a period of two to three years. If you still haven't waited for your ideal love, consider lowering the standard!
Secondly, you can listen to others' opinions.
Now that you are old, you should listen to others' opinions at this time. You can no longer persist or refuse all opportunities to meet. To let love go is to give up. You need to work hard to meet the love of your life.
The reason why you didn't encounter it may be that there is a problem with your concept of love. You might as well listen to others' understanding of love. The best thing in this life is to find someone who makes you feel like it, but doesn't hate it when you get along. Your so-called true love may be earthshaking, but it can't withstand the scrutiny and test of reality.
Again, you need to adjust your outlook on love.
There is no specific concept of love in the world. This is because love is the most unpredictable, and no one would think of flowers inserted into cow dung, nor would anyone think of handsome men marrying ugly women. In people's ideals, they are all so-called talented men and women. In fact, however, there are very few people in love who seem to be very compatible with each other.
"Why? That's because you think many people either grow well without education, or grow well with low education, or are kind but too tall, or enthusiastic but not beautiful.". If you look at people in this way, you will never see the right person. Learn to look at the world with an appreciative eye. Then this society will be better.
Finally, you need to understand tolerance and understanding.
At this age, you haven't entered marriage yet, and it's not your fault. However, marriage and true love are often not equal, and how many people fail to marry true love does not affect their love for their wives. So, what you need is a broader perspective on yourself. Accept more philosophical thinking, more understanding, tolerance, and responsibility. When you do well enough, love naturally embraces you.
