Post Date December, 03 2023
If he emphasized that the concept of "purity" was already outdated - in fact, he eagerly hoped that his girlfriend would be a virgin
Many men confuse "masculinity" with flirting, thinking that they are only half a century old, but have only contacted their wife and a woman, which will inevitably be ridiculed as "useless man".
However, they "only allow the state officials to set fire". They demanded that a woman should maintain absolute chastity before marriage, otherwise, they would criticize her for "indecency", "narcissism", "debauchery" or "frivolity". Even though the concept of sex is gradually opening up and the gender relationship is not as conservative as in the past, this concept of "female chastity" still exists.
Although the advocates of "female chastity" have gradually lost their power, the average man's view of private life is still extremely conservative. If your boyfriend once stressed to you that "the bullshit about whether a girl is pure or virgin is long overdue", you should never take it seriously.
Most men, after learning about their girlfriend's "bad record", appear to be indifferent, but feel extremely disgusted and angry. Therefore, they should not take this matter lightly, even if they say "don't care" or "it doesn't matter", you should also be vigilant, and never tell the truth about their "innocent" past. Even if it is a clue, it is hard to keep the other party from taking it seriously. The destructive power of this matter can far exceed women's imagination.
Psychologically, men's over-emphasis on "female chastity" is mainly due to their innate insecurity and distrust of women.
The same is true for those men who love flying vinegar and have a strong monopoly. They always worry that their lovers will "fall out of the wall", or they always suspect that they will be easily seduced and stumble.
The concept of "female chastity" has existed since ancient times and is deeply rooted. Therefore, it can't be solved by shouting "unfairness" and "inequality". You must not be moved at the moment to echo his so-called "open" concept of fashion. Even if you find out later that he has a split heart, what can he do?!
