Post Date December, 02 2023
Why do women love to nag?
For many men, this is a truly annoying and enduring mystery, and it seems to be the main source of their own pain. A survey shows that among the things men dislike when women do, the top ranked one is "nagging", far higher than the second ranked one, "not liking to dress up". It seems that even men who have always been lascivious would rather endure ugly women than nagging women. You can imagine the seriousness of this situation.
Uncover why men are afraid of women's "nagging"
Research has found that women can say twice as much in a day as men, so it seems that women are indeed more talkative than men.
If we need to carefully analyze, women's actions that men see as nagging actually include different contents:
(1) Repetitive command: If a woman does not receive a response to a man's commands, she will repeatedly request (rather than request), such as "When are you going to change the light bulb
(2) Care Reminder: Even if it's a friendly reminder, as long as it's not what the man wants to hear, it's considered nagging: "Did you take your medicine today?" or: "If it's cool today, don't forget to wear more clothes
(3) Praise others: Sometimes women express appreciation for others' words and actions, but if a man thinks a woman has something to say, it can also be considered nagging: "The old king next door bought a branded bag as a gift for his wife this Valentine's Day, and she proudly shows it off to everyone!" or: "I heard that Lao Wu is very good at repairing electrical appliances. If anything breaks, he can fix it with just a few clicks
Uncover why men are afraid of women's "nagging"
(4) Sharing thoughts: Perhaps the most frustrating thing for women is this one. After a busy day, we finally meet and share our thoughts with you, which shows that we are as close as ever. But when a man gets off work, he wants to relax. Reading a newspaper quietly and contentedly is enough. At this time, if a woman expresses a thousand words, she is really incognizant: "Xiao Xu and Xiao Chen in the office were shouting at each other during a meeting today, and the manager asked me to coordinate their conflicts
For women, these are completely different forms of communication in terms of content and function, but in men's ears, they all become the same definition: "nagging".
What women should understand is that basically as long as the communication method that makes men upset is nagging, ha! This also explains why men believe that women are constantly nagging, while women only acknowledge the difference in their ability to nag "occasionally".
So, why are men afraid of nagging?
(1) Nagging represents low power: only the one with high power can command those with low power. Women constantly demand orders, which means a transfer of power, and men are naturally unhappy.
(2) Nagging implies a lack of ability: Men believe that I have my own sense of propriety in my actions, and I can control my priorities without any need for guidance from others. Therefore, when a woman says this or that, it feels like she clearly does not trust my ability.
(3) Nagging indicates not being happy enough: Women may think that talking is about sharing their thoughts, but when they hear a man's ear, it is translated as' You're blaming me for not making you happy... 'How else would you suffer so much? And every day, I do things hard and hard, but I didn't expect her to still be unhappy. The more I miss men, the more frustrated I become.
