Post Date April, 15 2023
Before marriage, men are obedient to women, and women are also in a gentle and virtuous attitude. However, everything changed after marriage, and even some men began to hate their wives. For this problem, men should not be blindly blamed. Sometimes it is not because they are bored with their wives because of their flirtation or empathy, but because their married status is really unbearable. Here are six kinds of women that men regret after marriage:
Postmarital status
1. The eager woman of "Jackie Chan"
Some women often have a strong sense of vanity and attachment. The so-called "husband and wife are honorable" means that they hope their husband can achieve great success, and the sooner the better. In order to achieve this goal, they do not hesitate to exert all kinds of pressure on their husbands. This excessive extravagance often makes men who are not "rich and powerful" nervous and even overwhelmed. Of course, there is nothing wrong with encouraging her husband to work hard, but it may backfire if she does not always put too much pressure on her husband according to the actual situation.
2. A slovenly woman
Almost all men like women who dress well and dress appropriately, while some women who become wives tend to disappoint men more and more. Some women will become slovenly women after marriage, especially after giving birth to children and gradually entering middle age. A man's demand on women's dress does not mean that he will no longer love her as she grows older, but women who still know how to dress themselves after marriage will be more likeable. In addition, men will subconsciously regard women's self-care as an external manifestation of self-respect.
3. A suspicious and arrogant woman
Women have many bad temper, and the influence is also very bad. Women are often suspicious because of their lack of confidence in marriage and themselves. Because she is not confident in marriage, she is always worried about her husband's emotional displacement or misbehavior, so she is afraid of being abandoned by her husband one day. The root cause of self-confidence lies in the lack of independence and lack of understanding of the nature of marriage. An arrogant wife often makes her husband depressed and speechless, which directly affects the harmony between husband and wife. Such bad temper makes men unbearable.
4. A woman who lacks housewife consciousness
Some men only find out after marriage that their gentle and beautiful wife can't do housework at all, let alone finance. The ability of housewife relates to how women play their family roles, mainly the role of wife and mother. If a man can't even eat a hot meal after work, or can't even bring his own children, this kind of woman is "half disabled". I believe few men will like it.
5. A woman who divulges her privacy at will
Women always like to sit together and talk about "family life". The topics they talk about are very wide, but those who are really close often take mutual disclosure of privacy as their greatest interest. When meeting those "intimate friends", some women always can't control their mouth. Maybe they don't have the concept of "privacy". What makes men more angry is that some women even share their private lives with their friends. To disclose the privacy of the family, "betray" not only the husband, but also "betray" oneself and the whole family. As the saying goes, family is a warm harbor. If personal privacy and safety are not guaranteed, family life will not be warm.
6. A woman who wants to control herself
Some men are constrained by their superiors and rules and regulations at work, and also by women at home, which makes them unbearable. Some wives are suspicious because of their lack of confidence, care about their husbands everywhere because of "caring" for them, and always guard against their husbands because of their fear of "going bad". All these reasons lead women to want to control the men completely in their own hands, and even wish that the other side was a cloth bag doll. In fact, a woman who has excessive desire to control her husband stabs not only the man, but also herself. She is in a state of anxiety and tension at any time and cannot control herself.
(Intern editor: Lai Jiaxing)
