Post Date December, 03 2023
Why do men have extramarital love? What is the psychological root of extramarital love? Let's reveal the secret together.
Social recognition of men's sexual deviance is more tolerant than that of women
Although the society takes a tolerant attitude towards men's extramarital love behavior, the main measure of personal character evaluation in today's society is moral value. Even in Western countries with highly open sexual attitudes, private life still affects this future.
As a man, he really values his social role and career value. Extramarital love is a unique flag. If men's career and life complement each other, they certainly hope to have both fish and bear's paw. However, accidents are always unavoidable. Once there is a conflict with men's career and reputation, they will definitely choose to retreat in the torrent after weighing their interests and reluctantly abandon their love. After all, there are few infatuated men who sacrifice themselves for their lovers in society.
Although men's sexual values tend to be pluralistic, open and fraternal
Men with multiple elements of sexual values, this nature determines that they will be more rational and realistic when choosing women for extramarital love.
Men who yearn for romantic and exciting extramarital love are hard to give up their down-to-earth and light marital love. Perhaps their wives are always good to others, or their family flowers are not fragrant with wild flowers, but the ones that are warm and elegant are probably the ones that can stand the test of time. Wild flowers can bring themselves incomparable ecstatic freshness, romantic and refreshing, But this kind of house without solid foundation can not withstand unexpected earthquake after all. Most men don't taste the taste and effect they want when they are having sex. Extramarital love can play the role of relieving overload and tense social roles, can relax nerves, and add some magic spice to the boring life, but when faced with the life choice question, they must give up the desperate emotion and return to the countryside.
Poor self-control of men
One slip will turn into eternal hatred, which is a true portrayal of self-control. Many people just stumble on impulse because of their poor self-control. Taking extramarital love as an example, most of them are "emotional" and not "emotional".
In real life, qualified wives are far more than husbands. Married men do not lack basic physical and psychological satisfaction in the family. They do not lack sweetness and happiness. They just temporarily lose themselves when faced with the temptation of extramarital love. Afterwards, they wake up and know that they are wrong. Naturally, they do not say much. The most important thing is that when the wife discovers her husband's extramarital love, It is usually to transfer the responsibility to a third party and forgive the husband. Thinking of their wife's good past, they finally have no courage to break through the marriage.
