1. I don't need you
Mr. W has been a strong man all his life. According to Mrs. W, he is even tough. Don't even go to see a doctor with your wife; When shopping together, he always walks ahead alone; When his wife went out on business, he looked back at him. He always waved his hand and said impatiently, "You go, I'm fine alone.". After Mrs. W died of illness, Mr. W suddenly became much older. Two months later, he committed suicide.
Psychological interpretation: It is generally believed that women are more vulnerable and more dependent. However, a Japanese psychological research institute confirmed that in Japan, suicidal men are 1.32 times as many as suicidal women, and girls are also much faster than boys to recover after losing their love or spouse. The attitude of men towards their other half is often that I don't need you, and I will live without you. However, in fact, they are trying to hide their deep dependence on each other. "Without her, I feel very sad. It's too humiliating!" The man thought so.
2. Let's stay together
"Does he really love me? But it seems that every girlfriend he loves in this way." Xiao Wu was confused recently when she accidentally learned that her boyfriend's past girlfriend also thought he was sticky. My boyfriend wants to be with her for anything. Even if she goes to work overtime on Sunday, he has to wait in the coffee shop downstairs. Xiao Wu felt sweet at first, but gradually he felt dull and suffocated.
Psychological interpretation: Some men will give up "I don't need you" and go to another extreme - they want to be inseparable from you. This kind of camouflage usually appears in the stage of love or marriage. If you think he really loves you so much and doesn't want to part for a moment, it's wrong. In fact, such a man has a strong possessive desire in love. He hopes that you will always be in his sight not because of missing but because he is afraid that he doesn't know what you are doing.
3. I'm strong, and I don't care if you recognize me
In the impression of ECHO, the husband is always confident in bed. After each event, he asked ECHO to express his feelings. ECHO sometimes hesitates to say, because she feels very ordinary. At this time, the gentleman would open his eyes and say, isn't it good? Why do I feel so good every time. Mr. Zhang has always sneered at ECHO's frequent complaints about the insufficient length and frequency of SEX. ECHO believes that the gentleman is too conceited and doesn't care what he says, so he jokes more and more about his sexual ability. The gentleman's attitude is still tough, but ML's enthusiasm is getting smaller and smaller.
Psychological interpretation: Few men in the world are satisfied with their SEX ability, just as no woman is completely satisfied with her appearance. However, even if men have ED, they will never admit that they can't. "The weather is not right", "My wife is not gentle" and other reasons. Let him admit that "I can't do it" is deadly. Although he always pretends not to care about it, women had better understand that in bed, men care about women's feelings, and women's praise is almost all the motivation of his efforts.
4. I am familiar
"Never laugh at your boyfriend as a virgin, even if it's just a joke." LILY will always remember his childish performance when he first got intimate with his boyfriend. After the relationship between the two was upgraded, LILY joked that her husband was a virgin. He blushed and argued with her, saying that LILY was a rookie. A few months later, my husband's body was out of order. The reason was that he wanted to accumulate more experience and didn't want to be looked down upon by LILY.
Psychological interpretation: Another camouflage of men on SEX is that I am familiar. Boys over the age of 20 are ashamed to admit that they are virgins. They even brag about how many girls they have slept with in front of their same-sex friends and have had an N-hour marathon war. Even if he has slept with only one girl before you, he will show that he is confident and knows how the girl feels very well and direct you how to do it. So, at this time, you must not laugh at his childishness, and follow his instructions.
5. My friends all over the world
"In the rest day, if his mobile phone doesn't ring all day, he will feel that his life is a failure"; "When friends eat together, he likes to answer his mobile phone most. Even if it is not important, he should run to answer it with a dignified look, which makes people feel like they are busy." Lulu hates these little vanity, and asks friends around him. It seems that everyone's husband is so vain to dress himself up as a social expert.
Psychological interpretation: In the era of the CALL machine, there was a joke that circulated for a long time about a male citizen. The CALL machine always didn't ring, so he secretly called himself on the office phone every day. When I heard the beep of the CALL machine, I took it seriously and looked at it. Sometimes I said to others that it was really annoying that someone had an appointment to drink at night. Men like to disguise themselves as social masters, because in their growth, their father's image is usually busy outside, and he comes home late with the smell of alcohol and smoke every day. Making friends widely is a sign of successful men, so they often dress up as sociable to attract the eyes of the opposite sex. At this time, just smile. Why expose him?