Many men have mistresses outside, thinking that they are unaware, but as wives, few are fools. She always pretends to be silly, just to see how arrogant you are. Instead of making a big fuss with you, it's better to sneak through the motions with you. So, how a legitimate wife competes with a mistress has become a hot topic at present.
1、 Start dressing up and make men suspect
If you, as a legitimate wife, are unwilling to spend a man's money, there will naturally be someone to help with it. So, when a man begins to cheat, in addition to being angry and depressed, you should also be open-minded and learn to be good to yourself. You can use clothes, cosmetics, and shoes that you don't want to buy on weekdays to move home. Perhaps it's a bit exaggerated, but if it weren't for this, men wouldn't see your change. Perhaps it is precisely because of your disruptive changes that he becomes curious, suspicious, and even pays attention to you. The more he starts paying attention to you, the more he starts to take his heart home. After all, he has a guilty conscience and has his own psychological experience, so he will also suspect you. The more he doubts you, the more he will pay attention to you. When he pays attention to you, it indicates that he still cares about you in his heart. So, smart women know how to apply the law of attraction. Once he worries about you, he won't be able to accommodate a second woman.
2、 Make oneself more mature, elegant, and patient
A mistress is often liked because she is young and beautiful, but as a legitimate wife, one should avoid her sharp edges and show off her uniqueness. It is said that women are flowers and are always beautiful. You can enhance yourself to have more meaning, taste, and patience. Every move exudes elegance. Many women like to make a scene after falling out of favor, but since ancient times, roaring shrews and crying and complaining women have only pushed their husbands towards their mistresses. The most powerful thing in love is not to argue. A lady who is calm and calm in times of danger is the most feared role for the third child. Men will also discover the temperament of their wives as a result. Although a man's infidelity is fresh and exciting, he will understand in his heart that such a relationship will not last long. The days with his mistress not only bring anxiety, but also greater psychological pressure. Marriage can make one's heart peaceful and stable. So, if you still have a relationship with a man, you need to understand his psychology. Let yourself mature a bit and win with wisdom.
3、 Invite Xiao San and her colleagues or friends to a Hongmen banquet
You can act like a private detective and unknowingly inquire about Xiao San and her circle. Try every means to reach out to friends in the third circle. If necessary, you can find a way to invite her and her colleagues out together and treat her as a big sister. Then set up a Hongmen banquet. At the Hongmen banquet, you need to behave gracefully and then chat and laugh with everyone together. During this period, talk about your relationship with your husband in front of everyone. Of course, only talk about the positive aspects, and talk more about romantic things, especially the recent romantic events. I believe the third person will understand the meaning of this meal after listening. More importantly, you need to make sure that the third person's friends remember your husband's name. In this way, the third party will also take into account their own situation, and once things are exposed, they will be ruined. So, allowing the third party to automatically exit can avoid maximum harm.
Marriage setbacks are not scary, what's scary is the irreparable courage and confidence. As a legitimate wife, it is necessary to outsmart the third in order for the third to actively exit the game of three people. Because the results of extramarital affairs are mostly scattered by wind and grass, in fact, it is women who ultimately suffer. As soon as the third child leaves, the family will naturally be in good weather.