Post Date December, 03 2023
True emotions are a feeling
The true feeling is that when two people are together, they will have a feeling, which is not the thrilling electric shock of love at first sight, nor the tense and restrained restraint, but a "sense of familiarity".
In the eyes of two people, men can be unattractive and women can be unattractive, but they must look good to each other, feel friendly to each other, completely relax in front of each other, be willing to open up, be willing to expose their vulnerability, be willing to expose their shortcomings without worrying about the other person's contempt and ridicule of the true relationship, which is such a sense of familiarity and relaxation! It's a family like emotion!
True emotions are the fusion of soul and thought, not only appreciating and supporting each other, but also understanding and tolerating each other. It is easy to love a person's strengths, but difficult to tolerate their weaknesses. If a person can tolerate each other's weaknesses for a lifetime, it is true love. Only the person who can tolerate oneself the most is the one who loves oneself the most. So both parties can show their true selves before marriage, rather than hypocritically covering up their shortcomings. Because covering up for a while cannot cover up for a lifetime, only by seriously thinking about whether to tolerate each other's shortcomings can they have the conditions to enter the palace of marriage.
A true relationship is mutual care and consideration, a feeling of love and affection for each other, a feeling of gratitude for your kindness to me and my better appreciation for you. When he is tired, I will rub his shoulders, and when I am in a bad mood, he can patiently listen to my nagging. Two people cook together and take a walk together. When it's cold, they remind each other to add more clothes. One person coughs and catches a cold, while the other person can immediately bring water and medicine. Silently remember what the other person likes to eat and leave these things for them to eat
Real emotions are not just romantic flowers and candlelight dinners, nor just sweet words and vows of love, but genuine care and concern from the heart, every bit of real care and concern in life! As long as it is true care and consideration, another heart can definitely feel it!
True love requires both parties to cherish it together, and at the same time, to understand gratitude. It also requires both parties to know how to repay each other's love, rather than one party giving and the other always taking. Only in this way can it be permanently preserved.
