Post Date April, 15 2023
Nowadays, cohabitation before marriage is a very common way of life for couples. They believe that adapting to lifestyle habits in advance before marriage can reduce many unnecessary conflicts and promote emotional stability after marriage. However, cohabitation also has many drawbacks, especially for men, who should pay special attention to subtle life conflicts when cohabiting.
1. Both parents
If his parents still treat him as a child and hope that you can coax him like him, and he also enjoys the treatment of being a son, but your maternal nature is not so strong, which will cause a lot of friction in the future; If the parents of both parties do not get along well, it will be difficult to achieve even superficial harmony, which will also become a problem; If you don't like his parents, or if he doesn't like your parents, it will also become a hidden danger to future happiness.
2. How to Spend a Rest Day
If you love to sleep in on your days off, he prefers to wake up early and tidy up the house, and he still insists on getting you into a fight, which is inevitable. Only parents can tolerate the friction caused by differences in wake-up times; On the other hand, if the other party is indecisive and always unable to make up their minds, what they do together on weekends, or on the contrary, always making rough decisions about what to do, it can lead to unhappiness.
But this is relatively easy to solve. Both parties can make a rule, such as Saturday is the female birthday, Sunday is the male birthday, and girls' day should prioritize girls, and everything should be according to the girls' preferences. vice versa.
3. Can consensus be reached in discussions about children
Before marriage, it is important to delve deeply and repeatedly discuss this topic, so as to know if the other party's ideas are in line with their overall direction. For example, whether one wants children or not; One hopes for cramming education, the other hopes for developing individuality, and so on.
4. The Way to Use Money
One saving, one waste, for example, when receiving a monthly water and electricity bill, the party who may save will complain:
Why always forget to turn off the lights? Why is the water always on when brushing teeth? One likes it and buys it, while the other always buys cheap goods The differences in money usage and purchasing methods actually involve differences in the overall values.
Living together before marriage, on the other hand, the two are already family members. As a family member, we must live in harmony and refine conflicts, so that this family can be warm and long-lasting.
(Intern Editor: Liu Feifei)
