After several years, decades, or decades of marriage, the temperature of love between the couple cools down. Without love, each other will forget their "good" and start to pick and choose, resulting in disputes and contradictions. Marriage has thus become the end of love. In fact, this situation is not inevitable and can be changed. If you want to maintain the temperature of love in marriage, you should take a few injections of "heart tonic".
Heart tonic 1: Long live understanding
In decades of marriage, the most precious thing is understanding, the most precious is understanding, the most lovable is understanding, and the most tragic is misunderstanding. It's impossible to unify everything between you and your husband, so arguments are inevitable. During an argument, due to emotional excitement, they sometimes even utter obscene words, say "excessive things", and do "excessive things". This requires us to understand each other's mistakes and to affirm each other's strengths or achievements, which is a powerful tonic for warming up the relationship between husband and wife.
Fortifier 2: Communication to Create Harmony
With regard to family decisions, no matter how big or small, no matter whether it is about family decisions, or your own personal work puzzles or plans, you should not be the sole arbiter. Instead, you should communicate with your husband in a friendly manner to create a harmonious and democratic family atmosphere. Autonomy or self-discipline are very detrimental to the development of a couple's relationship.
Booster 3: Sharing housework
Traditionally, housework seems to be a woman's business, but with the opening up of people's minds in modern society, men should also participate in housework. Wives can fully divide the work of housework, so that they will be organized, busy, and not disorderly. When your husband is busy or under pressure, you may as well do more when he is idle. I believe he will feel your virtue, and this will undoubtedly make your emotional life more fulfilling.
Fortifier 4: Trust
Any intimate relationship needs to be based on trust, especially in marital relationships. Mutual trust between husband and wife, based on the principle of mutual respect, is also a prerequisite for long-term love. When you decide to go through the second half of your life hand in hand with your beloved, you also choose to trust him. The worst thing to do in marriage is to suspect each other and make things happen out of nothing, let alone casually check your husband's mobile phone, chat records, email, etc. This can only harm each other's feelings, even make him tired of you, and eventually walk away from you.
Cardiotonic 5: Comprehension
Men may seem powerful on the outside, but sometimes they look like children on the inside. They also feel like women, feeling down for no reason at certain times. At this time, use your gentleness to understand your husband. When he is in a low mood, if he is not willing to tell the reason, you should not endlessly pursue the bottom line. At this time, you only need to accompany him, and your husband must feel your silent support for him.
(Intern editor: Lai Jiaxing)