Post Date December, 03 2023
There are tricks to using text messages to pick up girls. If you learn how to say appropriate words in short messages, it can be a great tool for you to pick up girls. But don't bombard her with text messages, remember to keep your messages both interesting and slightly provocative. Treat SMS communication as a window through which she can see your exciting and diverse life.
The "subtext" in female language
Many men's men who have just received the contact information of a beautiful woman will immediately interact and flirt with her through short messages, extremely eager to upgrade their relationship. However, many of the short messages sent by men are very illogical and counterproductive, causing them a lot of trouble. I can't imagine how many misunderstandings those short messages with a "loser" vibe have caused, causing the great opportunity in front of me to slip through my fingers.
When you are chatting with a beautiful woman through SMS, the other party will have enough time to read your words after receiving the message, and also have enough time to misunderstand some inappropriate words in your words. This is different from face-to-face conversations, and the communication gaps in SMS are difficult to resolve through other SMS messages.
When communicating with girls through short messages, it is also important to learn to understand some of the "hidden lines" in their language.
Example
By chance, you met a hot girl who worked in a bookstore and luckily got her phone number. When you flirt with her through SMS, she asks if you are interested in meeting her at the bookstore.
Of course! "You said," I dream of seeing you again
Her response is that she will leave work on time at 9 pm.
What will you do at this time?
Some boys may think that they should arrive at the bookstore before 9 o'clock because she said she will finish work at 9 o'clock, and if it is later than 9 o'clock, she will have to leave. If you feel the same way sitting in front of the computer, then please allow me to make a sad expression. Because you missed a good opportunity she offered, she didn't say, "Come at nine o'clock." Instead, she said, "I finish work at nine o'clock
Your answer should be: "I will go to the bookstore a few minutes before you finish work, and then take you home~" (Of course, it can also be said to invite her to dinner or accompany her to any place she wants to go.) At this time, show your masculine side and dare to arrange the future. Don't show caution and caution. If she doesn't like your arrangement, she will make it clear and switch to something else interesting at this time. If you reply to her with a probing question, "Do you want me to be there before 9 o'clock and take you to have a late night snack?" This will also have a certain effect, but it may not seem more secure and irresistible than the previous reply.
Don't ask for the other person's opinion from the beginning. Since she told you when she will finish work, she must have some expectations. At this moment, we should taste the ambiguity mixed in this small hint, and bravely arrange our future activities to bring her a wonderful night.
How to avoid this embarrassing situation
Short messages can cause some frustrating misunderstandings, and how can we avoid this embarrassing situation? The best way is to keep the text message concise and concise. If what you want to say to her is more complicated, then give up SMS and bravely call her. SMS can quickly arrange travel plans and occasionally be used for flirting, but it is only one of the communication media for you to connect with girls.
If you have learned how to say appropriate words in short messages, it can be a great tool for attracting girls. But don't bombard her with text messages, remember to keep your messages both interesting and slightly provocative. Treat SMS communication as a window through which she can see your exciting and diverse life. Don't send messages to her saying that you are bored to the point of pain or that you are watching TV. You don't need to lie, but at least be creative. If you are really bored to the point of watching TV, send her a message telling her how much you miss her. If she can appear in front of you immediately, you will feel that the entire city immersed in the endless darkness will be illuminated by her shallow smile.
