The first step in pursuing a girl is to date her first. But many boys perform poorly on their first date, for example, because they don't understand the psychology of girls and think that girls like the deep and talkative opposite sex, they talk extensively about their ideals and feelings about life in front of girls. They also think that these deep and profound remarks he only wrote down after reading extensively will definitely attract her attention and even gain her admiration, but the goddess silently drew an X in their hearts. So it is a skill to showcase a healthy, upward, positive, confident, and emotionally intelligent person when dating the woman you love.
Firstly, demonstrate the inner interests of your girl. To understand a woman, you need to listen more and speak less. Even if you are not interested in what she says, you should pretend to be interested. The most important thing is not to strive to showcase your strengths, because girls generally feel that boys who showcase themselves are childish and superficial. If you keep expressing yourself, it will only backfire and make her lose interest in you. Also, appropriately praising girls for having ideas and brains can greatly enhance their liking for you, especially for young girls in the new era. Using this technique can achieve 100% success.
Secondly, pay attention to speed when speaking. Because it is a first date and both parties are not familiar, the conversation speed should not be too fast, and it is important to try to make sure that the other party can hear it clearly. A suitable speaking speed will also increase your elegance. It is also a basic conversation etiquette not to interrupt the other person's speech casually.
Thirdly, pay attention to table etiquette. This is really important, 99% of girls don't like guys who eat poorly. So try not to make any noise while eating. It is advisable to talk to each other while eating, maintaining elegance or elegance. The important thing is to say it three times. But remember to eat more, girls usually like boys to have a strong appetite. By the way, it's best to choose a restaurant that is elegant and tidy, or a Western restaurant with an exotic atmosphere. However, if you have an appointment with a female man, it's okay. It is best to find a corner position when looking for a dining spot, which can avoid the gaze of others, reduce girls' psychological tension, and facilitate private conversations. There are also girls who do not actively talk about drinking. Boys, please do not mention drinking, otherwise they may be misunderstood as bad people.
Fourth, take a walk after meals and pay attention to your pace. Walking on the road and basking in the moonlight is very romantic, but remember to keep in step with her. Your fast pace can make her feel uncomfortable. This is the best time for you to enhance your relationship, don't miss it. Just say something casually, just keep your eyes on her. Once there is eye contact, the boy's next step is very promising.
The fifth point is to have skills when saying goodbye. After the date is over, take her to the station to accompany her and wait for the bus until it arrives. Wait for her to get on the bus and leave on her own. This not only makes you look gentlemanly, but also takes the opportunity to show a little reluctance but not entanglement, letting the girl know your thoughts and think you are cute. The most important thing is that you can say goodbye to the next invitation. When she hurries onto the car, she usually can't remember to refuse.