Post Date December, 03 2023
A man goes through three stages of weaning, from getting married, having children, and dying of old age.
The first weaning period refers to early childhood.
The length of the lactation period varies from person to person. Those who have the conditions can eat until the age of three or four, walk and run, and even carry a small wooden stool to lean on their mother's arms for breastfeeding;
The second weaning period is during marriage.
The man got married, and another woman entered his life from then on. He had to adapt to this person's different temperaments, habits, likes and dislikes, and he had to accommodate, dote on, and protect this woman. But before that, he was accommodated, pampered, and protected by the previous closest woman. Now that his role has changed, it's terrible and he must adapt again.
From being protected to being protected, although men's emotions may arise, when they get tired and tired, they also feel that protecting others is a burden and burden.
So when he needs protection, the person he thinks of will never be you, but his mother. He is confused and wants to tell his mother that even if she doesn't understand and can't help, at least she won't speak sarcastically or be indifferent. She empathizes with his troubles and doesn't want him to pay attention to his own troubles when he is in pain. This is enough for my son. At this moment, he had a moment of peace. In front of his wife and children, he had to stand tall and upright, and in front of his mother, he was just a child, enjoying the rights of a child.
So, woman, you are only second rate in his mind.
If you scold him, he thought, Mom never scolded me before;
You asked him to do housework, he thought, and it was always his mother who did it;
You're half tired, he thought, what's the matter, isn't Mom like this?
You went shopping with a friend and he asked you, 'Why didn't you help Mom buy something?'?
You want a world of two, he calls his parents too;
Mom, he will always remember his mother. In his mind, you will never be compared to that noble, hardworking, simple, and frugal woman. This is really a nightmare. Do you think that you only hold such a small part in his heart, and the rest are mostly another woman who will never win
He would tell you this: Are you treating him better than his mother? His mother can be so scared that she can't sleep at night because of his scraped foot, afraid that he won't have enough nutrition to deliver meals to work every day, afraid that the quilt will cover the wound, and afraid that he will work hard... can you? As soon as you listen, you can't breathe at all and can only act like a white eyed person. The most angry thing is that you can't pass out and let him know the weakness of a woman.
When he said this, he never expected that all the hard earned salary you earned every month would be exchanged for rice to fill his stomach. Even if you were pregnant and raised in October, you knew it was his DNA test. You bought jewelry and picked up discounted pants for him while shopping, which cost 50 yuan per pair... let alone warm the bed in winter and turn on the air conditioning in summer
The only thing worth comforting oneself is that you are also someone else's mother, and you can also enjoy this dependence that you cannot get in front of your husband. In the future, your son and daughter will treat you as their husband treats his mother, and still make another woman or man jealous... OK, keep a balanced mind, and your husband's addiction to milk is understandable.
The third weaning period is during separation.
It is a pain in the hearts of every daughter-in-law that their mother-in-law and husband can live together and then separate. A man is always the child in his mother's heart. Living with his mother, his own household chores can be entrusted to his mother. If you ask him to take a piece of waste paper to pad a fish bone, and he asks his mother to take it, are you willing to call again? Alright, as soon as his mother left, there was no excuse left. Erlang's legs couldn't stand up, and eating ready-made meals became a bubble. He had no confidence in throwing away his dirty clothes, and sleeping late in the morning became a luxury. The child had peed, and his wife was washing dishes. He had to reluctantly wipe her buttocks
Since the heart is unwilling and unwilling, there are verbal temptations, excuses, blows, and satires.
You just thought about it. You were originally in charge, but now there is more housework and he is still gossiping. How can he bear this anger? With just a few words and no noise, I think you have enough self-control. When someone hits you on the left side of the face, they accidentally extend their right side too.
Returning to the issue of milk addiction. Is not all the dependence of men caused by milk addiction? Originally, this milk addiction was severe, but his mother was still relieving it. As soon as he left, it was even more difficult for him to suddenly get used to a life without a mother. The relationship between the two couples was like a new marriage, starting a new period of adjustment. A quarrel, a cold war, whatever's exciting, what should be turned upside down
You really can't bear to shout, "Stop! Quit breastfeeding
He also complains that you are ignorant. Why can't every woman be as cute as his mother?
So the mother smiled proudly from afar
Want to fight me? no way!
When will you be able to break free from your milk addiction?
(Intern Editor: Chen Hao)
