The development of patriarchal system in China for thousands of years has led to a very serious male chauvinism in China. They love face more than anything else, even if they suffer to death or something similar, they won't let a tear fall on themselves. However, do not shed tears or confide. It doesn't mean that men don't have pain, nor does it mean that women won't make men extremely miserable!
If a man encounters a woman with the following "characteristics", then the man will suffer for a lifetime. If he can't persist, the man will run away. In order to firmly trap men, women must not possess the following characteristics.
Characteristic 1: Self abuse
Some women, after receiving grievances, either overeat, make a scene, stop eating or drinking, or go to sleep... In short, they become angry. If you go to coax her, she will even say angrily, 'Don't pay attention to me, I'm annoyed!'! If you don't care about her, she will say, you don't care about her anymore, you don't love her anymore!
The women and men above can still tolerate it, but there is a type of woman who drives men crazy. That is, when they receive grievances or life is not satisfactory, they will take out their anger on their own bodies, such as burning their wrists and other parts of the body with cigarette butts, drinking alcohol and talking nonsense, bending their tongue, and even more so, running away from home or committing suicide.
Feature 2: Followers
Although men prefer women with a small bird to human figure, such women can greatly satisfy men's self-esteem. However, men do not like women who are like candy. Men prefer women with their own opinions compared to women with a small bird and a person.
If you are just an occasional little bird clinging to someone and flirting with your man, it will be very beneficial for your man. However, if you have no self at all and stick to a man alone, everything is waiting for him to come up with an idea, waiting for him to take care of it, without any own opinions, and even a little nonsense will make you confused. Which man would serve you like this all his life, without being tired to death, would have to suffer!
Feature 3: "Stylist"
There is a kind of woman who always imagines herself as a "Stylist" and always tries to change a man. However, decades of habits have already been deeply ingrained and integrated into the bone marrow. Even if this woman tries to change the other person in every way possible, it can only be said to be a futile and foolish behavior.
Even though he may make corresponding changes because he loves you, it's just a superficial effort and won't last long. Moreover, men need face the most. The more you want to change them, the stronger their resistance becomes. In other words, what you love is not the person you are, but the person you have changed. So, how can a woman who has been trying his best to change himself on a man's shelf not suffer for a lifetime?
Experts kindly remind you that in order to firmly hold onto your husband, prevent him from feeling tired of you, and maintain your perfect and harmonious sexual life, women must be careful not to become the three types of women mentioned above, otherwise it won't be even worse!
(Intern Editor: Lai Jiaxing)