Post Date April, 15 2023
Getting along with a husband and wife is a profound knowledge that requires constant learning and improvement to maintain a harmonious relationship between two people and enhance their feelings. In a long marriage, when two people are together, it is necessary to straighten out their attitudes and rationally and correctly handle the conflicts between them. Today, the editor will provide some suggestions for you to get along better.
Don't indulge your behavior
Many people indulge in their own behavior when they are in a bad mood. This is not only irresponsible for yourself, but also a kind of harm to your spouse. Whether you choose to indulge your behavior emotionally or physically, it is a provocation to your partner. Such as depression, indiscriminate spending, suicide, etc. It is recommended that everyone find a place where both parties can have a peaceful conversation for 30 minutes, and then figure out what behaviors are causing obstacles to their loved ones, and reflect on each other one by one.
Don't say anything that demeans the other person
There should be an equal relationship between husband and wife, so in dealing with each other, do not hold others in high esteem, despise each other, and say things that demean each other. For example, "Why are you so lazy!" and so on. Such words can hurt the self-esteem of the other party and affect the relationship between you. It is recommended that you list all grievances on a piece of paper, and then try replacing the words "you" with "me". Try to communicate with your loved ones using the sentences beginning with "me".
Don't seek help from third parties
A quarrel between a husband and wife is like a war between two countries. Both of them want the support of others to consolidate their position. However, when a third party appears, communication between you will become unsmooth and it will not be possible to fundamentally resolve the conflict between you. Therefore, when conflicts arise, don't rush to seek help. It is recommended that both parties calm down for a few days, consider the gains and losses in their marriage relationship, and write down what they need to improve; After a few days, communicate face to face with your lover.
Experts point out that a good way of getting along between couples can help enhance the feelings between both parties, lay the foundation for a harmonious sexual life, and then make your marriage more sweet.
(Intern editor: Lai Jiaxing)
