Post Date December, 03 2023
First, women give up everything for men
Some women, once married, immediately feel like changing dynasties. The sisters' small circle is no longer leaving, they are no longer going out to eat, they are no longer participating in group tours, and they are not doing their best in work. There is a sun in the sky, and a man in my heart. "Opening and closing your mouth is your husband, and all your friendships, family relationships, work, and life circles are closed.". It seems that if I don't do this, I'm sorry for my husband, but I'm not exclusive to him.
Man is a social animal. You artificially eliminate your social role day by day, tying all your emotions, emotions, and joys to a man. Don't you think how tired he is? "You are bound to pester him every day with endless questions and petty grievances.". What, he doesn't accompany you anymore, doesn't care about you anymore, wait, a woman's tears are like strings of grapes, and his affairs are so busy that he doesn't have the mood to talk to you every day? Are you bored after a long time? All of your negative emotions are caused by not contacting the outside world, and they are caused by your own troubles.
Keep the circle of friends going. Friendship is important to women. It is the lubricant of family life. Women must have a few close friends. When you lose control of your emotions, make sure that there are still friends who bring you tea and water, rather than howling about why the person who loves you the most didn't come. Your emotions allow you to digest them. Everyone matures and grows up in the ordinary days. Men also have troubles, but they don't shout easily, making people blind to their weaknesses. Are they cunning and baffling?
A woman must have the means to make a living for herself. Don't think that marrying a man means having food and clothing. Men are not your long-term meal tickets. No law stipulates that anyone must love you for ten thousand years. To love you or not is his freedom. Which insurance company do you think will provide love insurance? Don't be confused by a man's momentary generosity. You should have your own livelihood plan. It is always good to do a good job and stand on your own feet. It is always short of breath to rely on others to eat.
Men also strive for their own financial resources, and they respect women's self-reliance from the bottom of their bones. Financial ability is a woman's backbone. Why do men have to swipe their cards for you? Why can't you stand on your own? Being lazy and a parasite is always looked down upon. There is a kind of man who thinks he has made two bucks for his family, but he just plays his cards at home and treats his wife like an employee. Is it easy to live like this? As a full-time wife, you need to be mentally prepared, be prepared for danger in times of peace, keep learning, and don't lose your livelihood skills.
Second, taking care of everything spoils men
There are many women who aspire to be a virtuous wife. For the sake of a man's career development, they don't want him to do anything or wash towels once. It seems that my husband is not my husband, but a Bodhisattva in my family. It seems that the family is not for two people, but for you alone. I don't object to being a good wife, but is that man comfortable with your efforts? Will he love your efforts? Is it normal that you don't come to visit when you're sick and he doesn't return your information? If it's from a boss or a beautiful woman, will he ignore it? Men's inertia and neglect of you are cultivated by you. You don't think so. You think you're very noble.
"Your rights and interests have been ignored and omitted by yourself. On which month or day, you can't hold on. When you blame him for his indifference, he replies, 'Isn't it always like this?'"? Choke you half to death. There is a process from quantitative change to qualitative change in a man's heart. You should be careful not to be too laissez-faire. Men inherently advocate freedom. If you open your mouth and make progress, qualitative change will not be far away.
Before a man changes heart, there is often a premonition that he is drifting away from normal family life. If you don't go home, don't breathe, don't see anyone. Therefore, urging a man to fulfill his family obligations and marital obligations is a necessary precaution and a necessity for driving on the normal track. Not harsh, not lazy for a wife. This is to remind him that he is his husband, not staying at a hotel. Men are like children, but they can't be used to it. They are spoiled and have turned back. You don't know when they started. You can do less, but you can't make him think he's doing nothing at home. A wise woman thinks for herself when she is in the right position.
Third, sleeping with a man easily
Some women have too casual sexual attitudes. Do you have to give it if a man wants you? This is not good. Especially the daughter's family. Men fundamentally care about women's sexual attitudes, and if you give them, they may not necessarily say hello. Men's hymen complex is essentially about women's attitudes towards sex, not that layer of membrane. Chinese men's fear of green hats is a traditional Chinese psychology that has existed for thousands of years and is the weakest area of men's dignity. Don't blindly say that men are narrow and women value their own chastity. What's wrong with that? At least you are principled and not casual, which men wouldn't expect.
The more easily available things are, the less men will cherish them. This is a characteristic of men. A man's interest in a woman who has won will soon drop. Men can separate sex from affection. Are you okay? "When you give it to him, you think it's his person. You give it because of love, but he doesn't necessarily think so.". He'll think you're too easy to handle, isn't it like other men? When he feels that your body is no longer familiar, his mind is likely to move away. What do you think you did then? Can he be saved by scolding him for changing his mind and being a porn maniac?
"A woman's youth is only a few years, and the result of devoting herself to cohabitation may not necessarily be towards marriage. If you don't lose your virginity, will you still worry that he doesn't love you and pray every day?"?
Therefore, women can be single-minded, affectionate, and persistent, but they should cherish your efforts, not the more you give, the better. They should have their own bottom line of principles. You have to live your own wonderful life. Just take care of a man when he is sick. Don't take a man as your god. Giving too much to lose oneself makes men despise you. Self-respect, self-love, self-reliance, self-improvement, and Zhang Youchi are necessary to keep your sky from raining. Even if it rains, there is also a small umbrella in your hand.
