Post Date December, 03 2023
Now the divorce demography in China has been increasing. Divorce used to be a long way off, but now our friends and relatives around us are also divorced... All these have an invisible impact on your attitude towards marriage. It makes you start to doubt marriage, and even fear marriage. However, your life is long, and your marriage also has a long way to go. Therefore, everyone should rebuild their confidence and perseverance in love and marriage.
Understanding each other from their family environment
Everyone grows up in different living environments, so everyone has their own temperament and values. Therefore, people from different family environments and temperaments need to be tolerant and understand each other when they are together. So the first thing everyone needs to do before marriage is to explore the other person's growth background and family model, in order to understand their temperament. Apply the right medicine to the situation and find the correct way to manage marriage.
Accurately positioning oneself
This is a very important issue, as the relationship between lovers and couples is different from that between friends. Although both are relatively close relationships, couples transcend the relationship between friends. Therefore, you must recognize what the existence of the other person means to you, how you get along with each other, how you will spend your future, and so on. These are all issues that cannot be ignored in life. If the foundation of your relationship with him is not enough to become a husband and wife, then continue to get along, increase understanding, and strive to ensure that your decisions are correct.
Recognizing that marriage is a promise
If you choose to get married, you must have a correct understanding of marriage. Marriage is not only a "red book" bought for less than 10 yuan, it is not only a legal recognition and protection of your relationship, but more importantly, it is a lifelong commitment you make to each other. This commitment is about a lifetime, and it is the second family relationship after the original family that affects a person for a lifetime - you are responsible for yourself, for each other, and understand all the obligations and rights contained in marriage. During this process, you will encounter various problems and tests, but you have promised to work together and strive to create a more stable and beautiful future.
(Intern Editor: Lai Jiaxing)
