Post Date April, 15 2023
In reality, many people who have entered marriage sigh: How can life change so much before and after marriage? And then triggered a feeling: marriage is the tomb of love. In fact, there are many couples who do not manage marriage after they get married, which leads to conflicts of one kind or another. Here are some ways to improve the relationship between husband and wife. I hope they can help you.
Rule 1: learn to talk to the other party and don't lose temper
I have a friend who has lived a life of dressing and eating since she was a child. She has a grumpy personality. Because she never realized her shortcomings in this respect, after marriage, as long as she suffered a little grievance outside, she would bring her emotions home. At first, her husband coaxed her, but for a long time, her husband let her cry, no longer care about her. There was a crisis in their relationship.
This is a common case in marriage counseling. Remind every friend here that if you have been wronged outside, don't vent this emotion at home, but find a suitable time to tell your troubles to the other party. Both husband and wife will find ways to help each other eliminate their depression as soon as possible, so as to enhance their feelings.>> Three great ways to strengthen the relationship between husband and wife
Rule 2: If there is a rift between husband and wife, don't always say "maybe"
It is inevitable that husband and wife quarrel. After living together for many years, it is inevitable that they will encounter the phenomenon of teeth biting their lips. Therefore, don't say to each other because there are cracks: "Maybe it would be better if we didn't marry so early", "Maybe I should marry the man who chased me at that time", and so on. These negative thoughts can only make the two people farther and farther apart.
Therefore, husband and wife should remember their happy time together, dream about the future, and create more fun in their leisure time, so that the rift between husband and wife can be healed and happiness can last forever.
Rule 3: Don't expose each other's scars, think about each other's advantages
Some husbands and wives quarrel and can't care about anything. They tell each other all their shortcomings. This method of exposing each other's scars not only hurts the other's self-esteem, but also brings the relationship to an end. So, when you can't help thinking about reprimanding the other party, think more about the advantages of the other party, and think more about how he (she) has been good to you. Maybe this can make your mood a little more peaceful, no longer open the other party's scars, and can stabilize the relationship between husband and wife.
(Intern editor: Lai Jiaxing)
