Post Date December, 03 2023
There is a saying: Most men who are afraid of their wives are similar, but the reasons for being afraid of their wives vary. I certainly have my own reasons for being afraid of my wife.
Firstly, my wife was "deceived" by me using abnormal means back then. The first time I saw her, I secretly made up my mind not to marry her. In order to achieve this goal, I spared no effort in using the techniques of "digging, blinding, turning, and deceiving": first, I dug a "hole" and used her bold and generous personality to propose to introduce me to a partner. She readily agreed. Then, I took this opportunity to send her a few books and a coat in the snow, completely blinding her. I don't know if I am interested in her or the person she introduced me to. Later on, I often went to discuss with her and wrote love letters to her on the grounds that the person she introduced me to was not suitable for me. Finally, when she was moved by my sweet words, I decisively and boldly showcased her and "deceived" her feelings. After getting married, I once drank too much alcohol and showcased my various tricks of "deceiving" in front of her. Can I not be afraid of her for such a 'unseen' past?
Secondly, my wife earns more money than me. The family is a small society, and naturally it must follow economic laws. Whoever earns more money should be the head of the household and the leader of the family. At this point, I am truly ashamed of myself. My wife works in a foreign company, and the income she earns from working for one month is worth three months of my work. So there's no way, I can only accept the defeat. Besides, I am a dignified and capable man who can bend and stretch. Since I can be a public servant of the people, why can't I be her "private servant"?
Furthermore, the wife has the magic weapon of 'using softness to overcome hardness'. My wife is not only beautiful, but also very coquettish, and I can't stand this move the most. In order to prevent Jiaodi Di's wife from suffering, from the day of my wedding, I took care of all the household chores such as buying groceries, cooking, washing dishes, cleaning the floor, and washing clothes. After a period of time, I also had the idea of "transforming" my wife. One evening after dinner, I mustered the courage to say to my wife, "In the future, we can take turns washing dishes, or we can fight to win or lose. The loser will wash." My wife seemed prepared and didn't speak. She only smiled and stared at my face for a full minute, watching the immense passion I had just brewed vent for thousands of miles. Then, she put a pair of delicate little hands into my palm and gently said, "They say a woman's hand is her second face, don't you want my hands to become rough?" For a moment, I felt that my behavior was too reckless, and I took on household chores even more conscientiously. Do you think this woman is very scary when she becomes gentle?
Okay, there's actually no need to find any other reasons. With all this, you said, who am I afraid of when I'm not afraid of my wife?!
(Intern Editor: Cai Junyi)
