Nowadays, many young women prefer men with financial conditions when choosing a husband. This type of woman places love in the second or even third place. They expect a man to lead a carefree married life as a housewife, but the life of a housewife is not as perfect as everyone imagines.
A woman who becomes a housewife after marriage not only needs to organize the household chores, but also the daily necessities of her child's husband. Taking care of the details of her life can be said to be a housewife's task, even buying a super slim condom, because only she has the most time to take care of these things.
1. Life is boring
Once a woman becomes a housewife, her mind gradually shifts to the triviality and daily necessities of life. Moreover, this kind of life requires a lifetime, not just one or two days, and over time, she will naturally feel extremely dull. Full-time wives rarely meet other people and cook at home in the morning and evening. If they suddenly do not cook at home one day, it is abnormal and difficult for their husbands to accept.
Housewives are faced with daily necessities. The time that their husbands spend with them is also dinner and breakfast time. Moreover, when their children grow up and go out to work, the full-time wife's life can be said to be her own. If a lifestyle is not fun, it is equivalent to choosing a life of regret.
2. Increasingly losing the ability to survive
We all know that to survive in society on your own, you must constantly learn new knowledge to enrich your work and life. Housewives are not short of money, and they do not have the heart and motivation to learn new information every day. Gradually, it will lead to a lack of viability. If there are three major problems in the family, life will be very passive. From the perspective of social development, a full-time wife is a person who does not adapt to social development.
3. Loss of self
Housewives cook and wash clothes for their husbands and children every day. They stay at home and have no interest in cultivating their hobbies. Their daily life state and rhythm revolve around their family, never thinking of being better for themselves. "Without a personality, one is indifferent and difficult for others to remember and appreciate.". Like brands, only brands with personality and differentiation can have viability and are not easily replaced by other brands.
(Intern editor: Lai Jiaxing)