Getting along with a husband and wife is a subject that can never be fully studied. Because different couples have different ways of getting along. However, all couples also have commonalities. There are many principles of coexistence that all couples must adhere to in their daily lives. Today, the editor will introduce these general principles to you, in order to safeguard your marriage.
Don't act pretentiously
In today's fierce social competition, not fully exposing oneself is a way of survival. However, this way of survival does not apply between you and your lover.
If you still act hypocritically in front of your lover, not being honest with them, but letting them guess and guess. This can only indicate one problem - if you don't love him, if you live together for a lifetime, work hard for a day, come home and guess you like a riddle, and always keep a certain distance from you with caution, wouldn't it be tiring?
Don't be without a bottom line
A woman without a bottom line of principles is a woman without dignity and charm, and such women often do not attract men's interest. Remember, this is not ancient times and there is no need for a 'virtuous wife and mother' without a bottom line.
Nowadays, it's different. Women don't need to rely on men for a living, they don't need to compromise. A woman with a bottom line of principles cannot tolerate other women sharing this man with her. A woman without a bottom line of principles must be a woman who doesn't take dignity seriously, and she will also be a woman without herself. Do you think it will be difficult for a man to live with such a woman for a lifetime?
Don't be a good baby for parents
There are many men and women who are "obedient" to their parents, without a trace of resistance. Whether it is important or trivial, or even what socks to wear, their parents the final say. Such people will not have a good marriage.
Such people tend to lead a relatively oppressive life without themselves, let alone a happy marriage life for each other. Therefore, whether it is male or female, do not be the "good baby" of your parents, let alone choose a "good baby" like partner. Otherwise, your marriage will always be under the control of your parents, and naturally marriage cannot be happy.
Experts point out that in marriage, two people need to be honest with each other, but they cannot be without dignity, without bottom line principles, and cannot let your marriage be subject to parents. Otherwise, it will not only affect your relationship but also affect your harmonious sexual life.
(Intern Editor: Lai Jiaxing)