Zhang Ailing once said a very incisive sentence: every man has two roses in his heart, a red rose and a White Rose. I think for a man, he should have three women: one is the White Lotus. That was the boy's first love, pure and beautiful as a dream. You can only observe from a distance and not play with it. For many men, it is a distant white lotus that sways repeatedly in their youthful and youthful dreams. One is a red rose. That was a man's passionate love, fiery and thrilling.
Not only can you hug tightly, but you can also kiss heartily. The boy was washed with red roses and turned into a man. Red roses are a wine that mature men cannot put down. One is Dianthus caryophyllus. That is a man's wife, warm and elegant, gentle and affectionate. She is the driving force for men's struggle, the support for their hearts, and the harbor for men to return. She is the second mother of a man. Men are children by nature, and Dianthus caryophyllus will indulge his naughty with a smile and wait patiently for him to return home when he is tired. As a result, in the growth of a man's life, he will secretly love a white lotus, he will love a red rose, but he will choose a Dianthus caryophyllus to share life.
Bai Lian is not suitable for living together because she is so extraordinary and refined, and does not eat human fireworks. Red roses can stimulate men's desire to conquer and secrete male hormones, but many men do not have the confidence to live with a truly passionate red rose. Because he will be worried about either setting himself on fire or damaging the fish pond. What many men need is a loving and tolerant wife like a Dianthus caryophyllus. However, if you are a lucky man, you have a chance to meet the white lotus in your dream, and then turn it into a red rose, and finally into a Dianthus caryophyllus. For a woman, in your life, you should meet three men: one who looks up to you from afar.
That should be someone who secretly loves you. He always pays close attention to you from afar. He always cares about your trivial matters. Five or ten years later, when he meets you, he can still say that year, that summer, the blue flower dress you wore, and the smiling face on your young face in the sunlight. Think about how you used to think that every day was so plain like water, but there was someone who silently collected and brewed every little bit about you, waiting until the plain water turned into wine. Years later, you unintentionally opened the bottle cap and smelled the rich fragrance.
It would be a pity if a woman had not tasted the feeling of being silently and secretly loved in her life. One was used by you to bully. But the person you bullied was originally proud. But you easily captured him in the name of love, and he became your brave guard and loyal servant. So he sent you home in the dark, ran to buy ice cream for you in the hot weather, and at the ball, he was afraid that even being a servant would be contested, afraid of losing this humble profession. His smile is most important to you, and your sigh can make his heart feel like a knife. Your gaze is his compass, and your soul is the treasure he wants to explore. If you didn't have such a moment of dominance in your life, it would be so boring. Another one is here to retrieve you. You are God in front of the first person. In front of the second person, there is the queen.
And in front of the third person, you are a humble maid. At the beginning, you resisted, you struggled, you didn't want to be conquered, captured, or recaptured, and you never surrendered obediently. But gradually, just like the little prince taming the proud fox, you have been tamed. You are willing to be occupied by him in your heart, and you are determined to make him king. In your life, no matter how beautiful, talented, or noble you are, if your heart has not been captured by others in the name of love, then your life will be so incomplete. As a woman, who will you choose to spend your life with? That depends on different women, different minds, and their different personalities.