Post Date December, 03 2023
I have a happy family, my husband has his own business, and I am a full-time wife. I have been married for 10 years and everything has been peaceful. My husband was born in a rural area, from a poor family, but he has good ambition and perseverance. That's why I married him despite my parents' opposition.
With the help of my parents, we established a company after graduation and started researching products using our expertise. With our efforts, the company quickly became large-scale, with annual profits of over ten million yuan. At this point, I became pregnant. My husband advised me to go home and become a full-time wife. Seeing that the company was already thriving, I went home and had children quietly.
Three years ago, a top student from overseas came to the company, 25 years old, from his husband's hometown. My husband said finding someone from my hometown is reassuring, but I didn't pay much attention. However, within six months, my husband often stays up late at night. At first, I thought he was busy with work, but later I realized that he had a close relationship with this little sister. We argued several times, but my husband denied this incident. My husband and this girl have been stuck together for 3 years now. The day before yesterday, the girl came to negotiate with me and offered to give me 3 million yuan to transfer my husband. My husband didn't say anything, I'm feeling very uncomfortable now. Do I want to give up my husband? His attitude makes me sad too much.
Ms. Chen:
College romance is a relatively pure form of human marriage. It is precisely because of the emotions of college classmates that men and women generally do not easily destroy established marriages. Otherwise, there is no way to face one's classmates and teachers.
However, your emotions are not just as simple as your classmates. You started your own business and worked together to achieve today. From any perspective, your separation is not conducive to your respective careers and lives. I think your husband can understand this truth. Faced with young and energetic girls, men may be tempted and even cheat. However, when you think rationally, it is not wise to disregard career and life development solely for the sake of physiological pleasure.
What is your value beyond 3 million? This enterprise has your shares, and your annual profit is at least 3 million. You must not do such a thing. Talk to your husband well and use your classmates or teachers to persuade him. There are many good girls, but there are not many women who can be wives, especially those who can support men's careers.
