Post Date December, 03 2023
I believe that no one can guarantee 100% that marriage is stable and airtight. On the contrary, many seemingly happy marriages are full of loopholes, allowing mistresses to take advantage of them and leading to extramarital affairs. So, don't think too safe or too dangerous about marriage, but there are three types of marriage that have the most loopholes.
Marriage without children
Although modern people's thinking is very Westernized, it is undeniable that children are the best link to maintain marriage. Many people in modern times are influenced by the Western DINK family and do not want to have children. However, for Chinese people who have been rumored to have children, marriage is still influenced by their parents, relatives, and friends. If they do not want children for the time being, it is better to say so. However, for those who do not have the ability to have children, the husband has an excellent reason to have an extramarital affair. If he has an illegitimate child after cheating, It's not an easy task to dump you, and you can still get the full support of their family. You can only endure it on your own.
Marriage under the AA system
They agreed on a political and economic AA system before marriage, but they did not realize that marriage is a community, resulting in opacity between them after marriage. In fact, doing so would only harm the feelings of the couple, leaving them in a parallel and non intersecting state in future marriages. It is precisely this kind of marriage that is most likely to be exploited by the third party.
Excessive reliance on the marriage of the mother's family
There are many couples in life who are stronger than men in terms of family background, economic conditions, and other aspects. They have been living in the woman's house since their marriage. When the husband requests to return to their own house, the wife also ignores them. After a period of time, the husband often comes home late or does not come home for various reasons, and then suddenly appears in front of you with a divorce agreement. At this time, the wife thinks of moving out again, It's too late, he will never go home again.
By the time you reflect on God, he will have already built a love nest with a third party. As long as Green Book is in hand, the human side will naturally speak up. A survey has found that many marriages with strong maternal power will ultimately make the husband "lose out" in their inferiority complex, as long as they compensate by finding a lover.
