Post Date December, 03 2023
Men all like silly girls. This is a law summarized by some "smart" girls. So, there is a reasonable explanation for the emotional dissatisfaction. Those girls with good educational backgrounds, high incomes, and smooth career progress exclaim that "high places are too cold", blaming men for not facing the reality of "men are not as good as women" and not putting too much pressure on themselves, so they choose to stay away or give it a try.
This makes some sense, so their ideas are gradually becoming popular. However, do men really like silly girls, and should they also ask men to speak for themselves?
Foolish vs. understanding
I met Mr. Z online, and he has always been very interested in the studio I set up and occasionally gives me some advice. When I brought up this topic, he told his story.
I divide girls into three types: one is really silly, with low intelligence and emotional intelligence, and men don't like it; The second type is smart girls; I like the third type, they are smart but often play dumb. Men all have self-esteem, and girls who pretend to be silly can take care of this characteristic everywhere. When men satisfy their self-esteem, they will turn around and love this girl very much; Men are prone to making small mistakes, and girls who pretend to be foolish tend to make big things smaller and small things smaller with a tolerant attitude. Men who make mistakes will be grateful to her.
I like to chat in the open air, at school gatherings, I am always the protagonist. My friends praise me for my knowledge, and my girlfriend, Ke Ying, who is a doctor, often looks at me with approval. But sometimes, after a party, I receive a "prescription" from her, which is either hidden in my pocket or tucked into a book. The words on it gently correct some of my statements - I naturally appreciate her foolishness at the time and her reminders afterwards.
What moved me the most was that she used a silly way to forgive my emotional harm to her. I have been in love with Ke Ying for over a year and are planning to buy a house and get married. But at this moment, my beautiful girlfriend Carrie, who had been in love with me for three years but mercilessly abandoned me, suddenly came to me. I thought I had been bathed in the sunshine like love of Ke Ying, and there would be no more ripples in my heart. Perhaps, because I have deeply loved and repeatedly kept her; Perhaps it was the self-esteem and vanity hidden in the man's subconscious that kept me waiting for the moment to save face - Carrie's reappearance, which surprised me and left me at a loss. I frequently went to her dates, using excuses such as overtime to excuse Ke Ying. The most dizzying move was that I agreed to her request to travel to Hainan together. That day, I told Ke Ying that I was going on a business trip tomorrow. In the past, whenever she had time, she would always go to the airport to see me off, but I, who had a "ghost" in my heart, tried every means to persuade her not to go and see me off the next day
The scenery in Hainan is very charming, but I have no intention of enjoying it. The man who once promised to take Carrie abroad went to the United States without any news; And now, Carrie actually sees me as a life-saving straw, insisting that I apply for Canadian skilled immigration, and even talking to herself, planning our future. Because I loved her, I used to be very accustomed to her capriciousness and selfishness. However, with the help of a considerate Ke Ying for comparison, now I feel very uncomfortable in my heart, and I begin to regret it.
I didn't dare to call Ke Ying, so I casually dialed the phone to my own home. My mother told me that my father has been feeling unwell in the past few days, but Ke Ying is really good and has come to give him fluids again. My mother asked me, "Did you bully Ke Ying? Yesterday I casually asked, did I receive your phone call? Her eyes were red, but she insisted that they were uncomfortable. She comforted your father lying in bed and said that she would always take care of him. Son, there are not many girls like this, you should cherish them!" After hanging up my mother's phone call, I felt extremely sad, At this moment, a sudden thought in my mind made me even more sad: it seems that Ke Ying knows everything, she just pretends not to know! That day Carrie came to the company to look for me, and all her colleagues saw her; This time I took a vacation again, and sensitive Ke Ying only needed to make a phone call... I dare not think further, I just feel like I'm going to lose Ke Ying.
That night, I thought a lot and I will never forget the dark days when Carrie left me. At that time, I was extremely decadent. It was Ke Ying who used every bit of care to soothe my injured heart... But how much my actions now hurt her feelings and self-esteem! I cannot lose her, I must go back and ask for her forgiveness.
On the plane back to Shanghai, I decisively said 'No!' to Carrie's various demands. This was the only time I had ever known her and said 'No'. I knew it was Ke Ying who gave me the courage.
At the moment of reunion, Ke Ying held back her tears and pretended to be very happy, which made me feel heartbroken. I understand her thoughts and didn't explain anything, just holding her tightly in my arms with gratitude.
Silly vs. Cute
As soon as we met, Mr. C claimed to like girls who are "cute and silly". He has a profound theory about this: men are most afraid of girls being too scheming and sharp. Even a more mature man is first and foremost a child in front of his lover. He hopes that the woman he loves will give him motherly tolerance and understanding, and that she will have a childlike innocence and be able to get along with him foolishly and truly - with such "silly" girls, men feel both safe and warm.
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