Chinese women are too shy and restrained about sex, even if they become wives after marriage, they still can't let it go. This can make men feel boring, boring, and even lead to cheating! You know, to firmly grasp a man, not only from the emotional point of view, but also to secure his body. The following three questions require our wives to take a good look.
1. Sex Expectations Error
Most wives misunderstand the expectations of sexual life, which can lead to immediate disappointment and incomprehension when implemented in reality. For example, when the other person is physically and mentally tired or does not emit sufficient visual and psychological stimulation, the feeling that the husband does not want to have sex means he is not considerate to himself, is the dilution of love, or even has an ulterior motive; Or lack of communication, unable to solve problems and difficulties when faced, believing that sexual life is pain or torture.
In fact, both of these misunderstandings are caused by a lack of sexual communication. Wives should boldly speak out their problems and doubts, discuss and improve with their husbands, so that there are no more mistakes and the quality of sexual life is higher and better. Only in this way can we ensure that the degree of physical and mental pleasure only increases without decreasing.
2. Think you're giving your life
The emergence of this idea has two factors: 1. The wife does not understand sexual life and cannot integrate into it; 2. The husband is rude, disoriented, and doesn't know how to give affection. In this way, the wife considers herself a tool, selflessly devoting herself, and does not experience the joy of physical and mental integration.
Therefore, a husband should first face up to sexual life as an expression of love, love his wife with gentle and gentle behavior, and take care of her feelings; A wife should actively understand sexual life, explore its mysteries, actively participate in it, and enjoy its happiness and fullness.
3. Feeling sexually promiscuous
Under the influence of feudal sexual imprisonment, many people mistakenly magnify lewdness into the sexual life of a husband and wife. It seems that in specific behaviors, expressions, and sexual reactions, a wife should not be lewd or crazy, otherwise it is lewd. This is not the case. Couples' sexual life is normal, protected, and harmonious. Couples have the right to enjoy it, but they should also make it happy and happy.
A wife who holds this concept should change her wrong thinking, take a correct view of sexual life, and enjoy spiritual and physical pleasure with her husband under moderate, reasonable, healthy, and safe conditions. In this way, we can ensure that each other's feelings become stronger, that both body and mind can obtain the ultimate wonderful experience, and that marriage will be more lasting and stable.