Post Date December, 02 2023
In our opinion, the word "hidden rules" is a sneer. The hidden rules in the entertainment industry, the hidden rules in the workplace, and so on. Today, we will benefit from the hidden rules of marriage, that is, the hidden rules of marriage. Learning the hidden rules of marriage is very beneficial to your marital happiness. What else should we wait for? Let's have a look.
1. Giving doesn't always pay off
Love is a strange thing to say. People say that what you sow, what you sow, what you sow, does not mean that you will be happy. The faster you invest, the longer the relationship will last. Yes, marriage also has hidden rules. When we are going to marry a woman or a man, the first step of "hidden rules" has already begun. All love has requirements, and marriage is more to make these requirements specific. In addition to fulfilling the previous commitments one by one, I can't think of what you want to "hide" and what you are "hidden". If you don't have the ability to raise a woman, don't marry. It's not your business for a woman to let you raise her, but whether you can raise her or not is related to the long-term plan of marriage; There is no free lunch in the world. It is a joke to just "eat" and not give it in marriage.
2. You are no longer perfect in his eyes
Two people get along face to face every day. Two people sleep in the same bed. During the period of love, all your advantages in his eyes may be shortcomings at this time. It's not that you have changed, but that people are naturally difficult to meet. Over time, the bone in the egg will also happen. In fact, the men and women who have entered the marriage may be slack, and may not be enthusiastic, but the advantages we have fallen in love with will always be there. It is our tired heart that makes the face of the shortcomings become detestable. The residual temperature of love can last for two years at most in marriage. After this time, our marriage can't be forever only by the sentence "I love you". Sometimes, we are in the besieged city of marriage because "the enemy's way is narrow", so we should pester the old and talk about love slowly.
3. A happy marriage requires compromise
Marriage ties two strangers together for a lifetime, so you should accept whether they are good or bad. If you only want what you want, then you are doomed to be the loser of marriage. Everyone knows that no one is perfect, but once you enter the marriage life, you will forget it. The truth of marriage is that the two steps have nothing to do with the "history scroll". You have been elated, and you may no longer be lonely and lively, or you may no longer be happy, and you may become miserable.
(Intern editor: Lai Jiaxing)
