Post Date December, 02 2023
Extramarital love has existed since ancient times, but there was no restriction of "monogamy" in ancient times, so extramarital love was not so obvious. However, in modern times, this problem is very prominent. There are many internal and external reasons that lead to extramarital affairs. In addition to men's own lascivious roots, external factors are the main reasons for extramarital affairs.
An extramarital lover is disloyal to their spouse and violates the oath between them. In short, in marriage, the extramarital lover is the wrong party, and the wrong party will inevitably bear a lot of psychological and social pressure and criticism afterwards, suffering from inner pain and suffering. However, this kind of pain is not always present from the beginning, and it usually comes to light after going deep into an extramarital relationship. In short, extramarital lovers are bound to suffer from three intangible pressures.
Make women doubt love
In extramarital relationships, women are often more easily trapped, and they want to end this shameful relationship by either breaking up or getting married. But their extramarital partners don't think so, they think it's good to maintain their current extramarital status. The woman is puzzled by this and sometimes even suspects that the other person is playing tricks on her. This leads to confusion among women about their emotions, making it difficult to understand whether the person they love loves them or not, and whether the person who loves them is sincere. As a result, I became suspicious of love until I didn't believe it and stopped touching it.
Causing mental exhaustion
Extramarital love is not recognized by the world and the law in today's society, and can even be said to be impermissible and unforgivable. Therefore, extramarital love cannot be seen in the light, and it dies when seen in the light. So both at home and abroad, extramarital lovers have to painstakingly fabricate various lies all day long to cover up their extramarital affair. Opportunities for exposure such as economic expenses, time arrangements, restless faces, subconscious reactions, and nighttime dream words cannot be prevented, and one has to use lies to prevaricate, often worrying about their lies being exposed. Long term lying has left them exhausted and overwhelmed.
Deeply immerse oneself in self blame
Extramarital love is not only disloyalty and irresponsibility towards the spouse, but also disloyalty and irresponsibility towards the family and children. For those who have a strong traditional marriage and family, once they have an extramarital affair, it is difficult to face their spouse and children with peace of mind, often falling into a state of conscience and self blame.
The well-known brand Durex reminds that extramarital affairs are immoral and violate the "monogamous" system stipulated in the marriage law. Even if they are not sanctioned by the law, they will still suffer from mental torment. So, everyone should never engage in extramarital affairs, otherwise it will torture both oneself and spouse and children.
