Post Date December, 02 2023
When falling in love, men are often called "dumb goose". They always need a woman's explicit and implicit instructions to know how to do the next step. They are always like missing a muscle. They need to be prompted to know the original woman's implied meaning. So men are not understood by women at all, and even often misunderstood!
In fact, men use actual behavior to prove their words, so they are not helpless or passive in the subject of love, but men have a man's view of love!
1、 Love is not all
For women, love accounts for 90% of life, but for men, it may be the opposite, only 10%. Maybe men and women should complement each other!
In the eyes of men, they do not understand why love can be a woman's second life, can be the oxygen in life, and should focus all their efforts on love, which is beyond men's understanding.
Men only understand to be practical, because in love and bread, it is still possible to talk about romance and romance after having a full stomach, so in many things, sometimes you will postpone your appointment, sometimes you will be ruthlessly dismissed, and sometimes you will put your brother's affairs in a more important position than your date.
Let you think he is ruthless or he doesn't love you enough, in fact! He didn't despise you at all, but he was very focused on doing what he thought was more practical.
2、 Silence and Listening
"Three women are a vegetable market" is exactly the description of a woman's special talkative problem, no matter what big or small matters, no matter who knows well, from life to company, from the house to the alley, etc. It is difficult to stop talking.
This is because girls like to share things or secrets with others, so they will talk about it. Women just tell you because they believe you and have no intention.
But a man doesn't think so. He will feel that you are cranky, and even have no sense of mystery, and become just bored. And sometimes you rob him of everything he wants to say, so he is even more reluctant to speak.
At this time, what a man wants is for a woman to listen to what he wants to say, keep silent, and give a positive look to the man at the right time, which is enough!
3、 Never say anything about it
Women love to share things with their sisters, and talking about everything is a symbol of women's private relations! But a man doesn't like this. He will feel that it is a matter of two people and there is no need to tell a third person about it. He will reveal his privacy to others.
As a result, he will feel betrayed and betrayed. It will make him feel uncomfortable if you tell him everything without concealing it. If a third party adds to things he doesn't know, it will make him unbearable.
4、 Simple ideas
Women always think of some strange questions, such as: Why did he pick this time to call me out? Why would he invite me to see a movie tomorrow?
Is there any special reason? In fact, a man's idea is very simple. He doesn't have such a complicated idea as a woman. He will directly ask "Are you free tonight?"
Is that really tonight? "Is it convenient for you to answer the phone now?" It really means now! Don't think about why, because he will find you and call you. The idea is very simple, that is, he will find you only when he loves you!
5、 Invisible lovelorn mood
As long as a woman is lovelorn, it is easy to find out, such as cutting her hair, changing her habits, and being unusually happy or sad, or eating and drinking or not touching water.
It is hard for men to see. Maybe the physical and psychological factors are different, but some scholars have said: "psychologically, men are more likely than women to have the psychochemical reaction of overcoming pain."
Maybe men understand that because they will fall in love again, why should they always be in a lovelorn state? Because the best way to heal is to find another love, because men understand the truth that "there is no herb anywhere in the world".
Men are practical and rational rather than emotional. Their view of love is "simple" and "direct", so don't expect them to fully understand women's psychology.
