Post Date December, 02 2023
As the saying goes, "Men are afraid of entering the wrong line, and women are afraid of marrying the wrong man." This is not true. Love and marriage are totally different concepts. People who get married are also divorced. So you can see whether their sweet words to you are sincere or not after marriage, regardless of how sweet your love is. Some men are completely two before and after marriage, which makes many women disappointed, These three aspects are actually the least that married women want to experience, so what are the three aspects? Let's have a look.
Damage 1: open mouth
Language has opened up the communication between people, and also led to invisible harm, because people have the gift of imagination. Generally speaking casually in interpersonal relationships is irrelevant. If he is your darling, any casual remark may cause harm to you.
In addition, women have always "listened to love" more than "looked at love", and the language of discretion is obviously more sensitive to women than to men.
Because he is too familiar, too accustomed, and too inconsequential, maybe he feels more and more numb to you, but as a woman, you are more vulnerable to him.
Analysis: "Please be careful, my injury comes from you" is a lyric, which reminds a man who is a husband not to forget his wife's vulnerability. As long as you pay attention, the "nonsense" that jumps to your mouth will consciously keep the "husband and wife discipline". Because in addition to imagination, people have the gift of conscience and self-consciousness. Let conscience tell his wife's hard work, and let self-consciousness keep the love for him. In this way, the happiness of the two worlds is your natural home.
Injury 2: Unauthorized action
In modern marriage, the husband is busy and the wife is not relaxed. However, it is only reasonable to exchange "intelligence" in their own independent freedom. The promise made before marriage may change unexpectedly, but it is always the husband and wife. With modern communication so convenient and fast, it is inevitable that the wife's feelings will be unbearable if she acts without saying hello at all, even though he is completely well-intentioned.
Analysis: Although sometimes the plan can't catch up with the changes, or the weather is unpredictable, he thinks it will give you an unexpected surprise, but it will make you sad. As a husband, he should not forget that contemporary couples are "feeling bodies". One party's unauthorized actions will always bring the other party's feeling disorder, and the man's independence and arbitrariness are invisible harm to women.
The third injury: forget the important day
Despite the repeated advice of marriage experts, careless husbands will still forget their wife's birthday and their marriage anniversary. In fact, if you study women's birthday psychology carefully, there are not many mysteries: it is just to confirm the husband's care and yearning for you.
Analysis: Women are easy to be moved because they are more considerate than men. The husband who can share happy birthday with his wife is the gift his wife wants. Almost all women have to face the difficulties of the world while being housewives. Think about women's double hard work. Don't men give women more consideration and comfort? Express your love to her quickly.
Conclusion: The above three aspects are the things that married women are most reluctant to experience, because these represent that a man has not put you in the most important position, has not considered your feelings, and even feels that you are married, and has no significance for commemorating some important days. These can show that this man does not care about you much, This is also the most unbearable thing for married women. They only want to find a man who is good to themselves and puts themselves at the heart of the man, rather than being forgotten after marriage.
