Post Date December, 03 2023
For men, the following six women may make your marriage a painful journey. So, men, open your eyes wide and see clearly. You must think twice for your own happiness.
1. A woman who wants to change a man
She may come from a family without love and has never received emotional warmth. Due to her numerous attempts but unable to receive love from her parents, she would desperately seek it from her partner. If a partner doesn't know how to give her moderate love, she will try to change the other person. She always feels that the other person is not perfect enough, but still "believes in their potential" and will use all means to turn them into the person she needs. If you refuse to accept her 'transformation', your marriage will only come to an end.
2. A woman without herself
She may never have taken good care of herself. When a person in need of care appears, she naturally focuses all her attention on the other person and puts all her efforts into giving for them. She is willing to accept and bear the blame and guilt that arise in the emotional world anytime and anywhere. She doesn't live for herself, but for others; She is not so much a selfless and obedient woman as a love slave who has lost herself. However, marriage is an equal partnership, not a master slave relationship. Accompanied by a woman without herself, men bear the heaviest and heaviest emotional burden. Unless you are a cold hearted man who can calmly accept her "sacrifice". For herself, once a man leaves her for some reason, she may collapse due to not being able to accept reality. 3. A woman without a bottom line
She has never felt secure, and she never knows how to be restrained in her actions, nor can she always be content and happy. Once she falls in love with someone, even if they don't belong to her at all, she won't give up. She will wait and work harder to cross the bottom line while waiting. Such women tend to be more emotional when doing things, disregarding the consequences due to momentary impulses, whether it's crazy shopping or extreme pursuit of enjoyment. In marriage, she is even more unable to face the outcome of being abandoned. Even if the situation ends, she will do whatever it takes to keep him at all costs.
4. A woman who refuses the truth
She never had confidence, even if happiness came to her side, she didn't believe it was true. She doubts everything, including love, because her psychology cannot bear the warmth of love. If you marry such a woman, you should be ready to deal with her sensitivity and suspicion at any time, and bear all the storms in life for her. Similarly, if emotions encounter twists and turns, she will only allow herself to live in a world full of fantasy, far from the real reality. Just like an ostrich, when faced with danger, they bury their heads in the sand, thinking that if they don't face it, everything will be fine. In fact, she just didn't have the courage to face reality.
5. A 'self abusive' woman
She is willing to be with those who are emotionally and emotionally troubled and constantly facing problems, seeking comfort from them, in order to conceal her own confusion and irresponsibility. Perhaps because she had encountered abnormal hardships and misfortunes during her growth, she would not cherish the "kind" people who were wholeheartedly good for her. In her eyes, a peaceful life is too mundane. She is more willing to conquer turbulent days and difficult to control people, and sees all of this as a thrill. Such women are prone to infidelity in marriage because they are not satisfied with the mundane companionship of daily necessities, but prefer to seek novelty and excitement over and over again.
6. A woman who cannot shake off her parents' shadow
Unlike the first five, her life is not without love, but with too much love, dedication, and sacrifice from her parents. And in her eyes, this kind of love is an endless debt and a lifelong kindness. This kind of pressure makes this person never grow up and can never relax to enjoy their independent family life. If you enter a marriage with such a woman, it is equivalent to shouldering a burden that can never be unloaded, and she will define your marriage according to the way your parents interact, making your home a "cloned" family.
When people feel love, they are also feeling an unpredictable future to some extent; When two people share each other's unknowns, they are also sharing your common unknowns. Love is unconditional, but you need to understand that understanding each other is not about staying away from them, but about walking a long and arduous journey where two people can walk better, smoother, and peacefully through it!
