In addition to being a husband and wife, there are also children and parents in marriage. A qualified man cannot just be busy with his career, nor can he neglect his children's education just because he excels in his work. It is said that the son does not teach the father. And more men forget because they are busy
Filial piety towards parents may have such a mentality, but they always do not take action. It is too late to repent when the 'son desires filial piety' is not present. Have you seriously reflected on how long it has been since you neglected your child's education? Is it okay to leave all the education issues for the child to the wife or even the parents? Has it been a long time since I visited my parents or even called them
After getting married, men often hold onto the mentality of having their wife in their hands, and when they do something they want to do, they often unintentionally overlook something, and the signs of marital discord begin to emerge unconsciously. When there are problems in marriage, it is only when one realizes that they have to work hard again that the results are minimal, and even irreparable only with regret.
Busy and busy, men rarely have time to calm down and reflect. In fact, it's not that they don't have time, but most men are unwilling or even disdainful to reflect on some issues in their marital emotions. It seems that doing so is quite a motherly thing, which is completely a psychological misunderstanding. Without reflection, one cannot progress, and without reflection, problems will accumulate. Here are six questions that men in marriage should reflect on the most. I hope that men in marriage can take time to think about these questions.
Have you achieved the goal of keeping your wife and children from worrying about food and clothing?
Many men seem to be working and busy every day, but have you ever thought about whether your busyness is twice the result with half the effort? Even the food and clothing issues for wives and children need to be too frugal and calculated? Although men have different abilities, if their abilities are really limited, there is no need to be demanding. However, most men with poor abilities are not many, and more often have the ability but do not put in effort, lack ambition, and indulge in games or gambling tables
Have you neglected your wife's emotional and spiritual needs?
Material is just a basic requirement. As a married man, besides providing relatively worry free material conditions for his wife and children, has he become too devoted to work, career, or social activities and neglected his wife's spiritual needs? For example, do you remember your wife's birthday or the couple's wedding anniversary when you go shopping with her or take a walk with her? Will some of the romantic needs of a wife be rudely undermined?
Has it been too long since I talked or communicated with my wife?
Without communication, there will be no harmonious marital relationship, and there will inevitably be no warm and happy marriage. Women are mostly willing to chat and talk, while men tend to be silent. Has it been too long since they had a good conversation with their wives? Has it been too long to communicate about major and minor issues in life? Even just a word, rudely only one person the final say? Do you only focus on socializing and come home late every day, leaving your wife often alone?
Did you accidentally hurt your wife with your words and actions?
Men are mostly careless and often think they are right. They unintentionally say things they shouldn't say or do things they shouldn't do without realizing it, and their wives do not point out it out of love. However, the harm already exists, which requires men to regularly and actively reflect and reflect. Did you unintentionally say a careless word or act that hurt your wife's heart? Have you wronged your wife with your chauvinistic words and actions?
Are you neglecting to educate your children and show filial piety to your parents?
In addition to being a husband and wife, there are also children and parents in marriage. A qualified man cannot just be busy with his career, nor can he neglect his children's education just because he excels in his work. It is said that the son does not teach the father. And more men forget to show filial piety to their parents because they are busy. They may have a heart, but they always don't take action, and when "the son wants to show filial piety is not there", it is too late to repent. Have you seriously reflected on how long it has been since you neglected your child's education? Is it okay to leave all the education issues for the child to the wife or even the parents? Has it been a long time since I visited my parents or even called them?
Can you afford to love your wife and be loyal to your marriage?
Marriage is a marriage between two people. Life is for oneself, not for others to see, so being worthy of one's own heart is the most important thing. On the surface, they seem to be harmonious and never argue. Others may consider them model couples, but in reality, many model couples are just a pretense to others.
Being loyal to marriage does not rely on concealment or deception, nor does it mean that the wife seems to be able to feel at ease without being aware of her infidelity or even infidelity outside. Do men follow the trend and flirt with women when they are outside? Are you playing intimate games with online women? Is it true that you can trust your wife and be loyal to your marriage?