Sex is not a mechanical movement, but a thing of love. When making love, don't be impulsive and violate some sexual taboos at will. For a long time, people have been concerned about a topic: how to deal with the disharmony of sexual life? The long-term life practice of humans has proven that the harmony between anything depends on the differences between them. Differences are eternal, while harmony is relative. The harmonious sexual life between couples is closely related to the sexual differences between men and women. The disharmony of sexual life is not only due to physiological issues, but also due to psychological issues. In clinical medicine, the main manifestations are sexual physiological problems, namely differences in sexual physiology; In daily life, sexual psychological problems refer to differences in sexual psychology.
Don't compare your lover to others. When two people are gentle, don't compare them, such as "your figure is very good, only slightly worse than a movie star" or "you perform best among people I know"... Even if you sincerely praise each other, if you have more qualities, it is easy to cause misunderstandings and make them feel uncomfortable when you think of others during sex.
Don't just focus on sexual intercourse and ignore emotional communication. Sex and life are inseparable and require a good emotional foundation. If two people do not have any emotional communication and only want to achieve pleasure through sexual stimulation, it is not only difficult to achieve orgasm, but also they will doubt each other's purpose and increasingly refuse sex.
Don't be superstitious about pornographic movies. It is wrong to learn sexual skills or theories from pornographic products. Pornographic movies and TV dramas are mostly exaggerated and explanatory methods, and can only serve as adjuncts for sexual life. If blindly imitating, it is likely to have the opposite effect, reduce sexual desire, and lead to female apathy.
Don't use it all at once. Although we are intertwined, we need to constantly watch our phones, watch TV, and even consider work. When the other party's relationship continues, it is easy to detect such actions, which can dampen their enthusiasm and even cause arguments.
Don't force or even force the other party to act. Some couples force sex when they are in a bad mood, which not only fails to achieve sexual harmony, but also causes resentment from those in a bad mood. If it occurs repeatedly, it can lead to female frigidity or male impotence
How to give the other person a new feeling through sexual intercourse? This issue is extreme, but netizens are very interested. It's not difficult to say, nor is it easy to say. Some people on the internet boldly propose from a sexual perspective that "the best way is to switch people", which involves a very serious social norm, legal and moral ethical issue. If we simply look at sexual activity itself, regularly adjusting the environment, timing, and posture of sexual activity is an effective and good method. But some people prefer to be fixed for decades every day or several times a week, while others are completely random. As long as couples agree and have habits, there is no criticism. Some people like patterning, while others do not. If you can maintain emotional stability and impulsiveness, promote youth and vitality in sexual life, patterns themselves are not a very principled issue. The key is to have a correct understanding and understanding of 'freshness'.