Post Date April, 15 2023
Everyone has their own personality and ways of doing things, and different people will have different performances on the same thing. If you want to have a harmonious and healthy married life, what you need is mutual cooperation and understanding between your husband and wife. However, many times, men's performance in sexual life is always unacceptable to women, not a matter of sexual ability, but some details of their sexual life.
1. perfunctory foreplay
Women often regard gentle and caring foreplay as a manifestation of love. Detailed and caring love and compassion not only appreciate her body, but also reveal her true feelings. Although many people understand this principle, there are still men who go straight to the topic without thinking about themselves, which only makes women feel bad, let alone have complete sex. PS: A woman's physiological characteristics determine her need for longer periods of arousal. The love and compassion actions of a man before the beginning of sexual life, including kissing, hugging, touching, and even massaging, can help the woman lift her spirits.
2. Do not pay attention to cleanliness and do not wear condoms
Perhaps due to laziness or a love of improvised sex, many men refuse to take a shower before making love. What makes women even more headache is that some men even refuse to wear condoms. However, unsafe sex has brought a variety of troubles to women, including gynecological diseases, miscarriages, and so on. Therefore, the most unbearable thing for a woman is the men who make trouble with her on bathing and condom issues. PS: From the physiological characteristics of women, women are more susceptible to infectious diseases of the reproductive tract. This is also the reason why women need more cleanliness
3. Fall asleep after sex
"If you fall asleep due to exhaustion after sex, no woman wouldn't think this way: 'He just uses me as a tool to vent his desires, and he doesn't love me at all.'" Dr. Judy, a well-known American physician, also pointed out that during the process of sex, the drooping brain of a person experiences the excretion of oxytocin, causing a warm desire to embrace, and women are more likely to produce this hormone than men. ". Therefore, after having sex, women are more likely to embrace and love. PS: A woman's sexual arousal is slower than a man's, and the same orgasm also slows her down. The man can continue to give her some influence to help her gradually fade away.
4. Inappropriate sexual needs
Regardless of whether she is exhausted or physically uncomfortable, a man who only knows sexual needs blindly can only make a woman feel bad, make her feel that you only love her body, and make women even more disgusted.
There are many men who are relatively selfish in their sexual life. They only care about their own enjoyment, while ignoring the feelings of women. In fact, many women care more about the process than the outcome in their sexual life. They like to judge whether a man loves themselves through some details of their sexual life. Women pay more attention to psychological satisfaction, so men must pay attention to these issues.
