Post Date December, 02 2023
Many brothers like the thing of 'ambiguity' and don't want it. They especially enjoy the feeling of being easy to get with girls. Sometimes, you flirt with girls and make them feel very passionate, but when you show off your male nature, you recoil and know that you like this feeling, just like girls enjoying the feeling of being spoiled by you, SO, Today, I would like to talk to you about the 16 hidden rules of being ambiguous with girls, as well as some sincere words that girls want to say to you:
1. When working on weekdays, frequent WeChat contact is not advisable, as it can cause resentment among girls or make them feel that you are too indecent. On weekends, you can directly make an appointment. If you have dinner together or go somewhere to play one night, you must send a WeChat greeting within 10 minutes after taking her back. This is a man's responsibility! Of course, you can also consider it a standard accessory for playing with ambiguity!
2. If you are playing in an office romance, take the initiative to solve her computer problem in the office and signal that she doesn't need to stand up. Bend down your waist, hold the back of her chair with one hand, hold the mouse with the other hand, and then approach your face to maintain a palm distance from her face - it is important to ensure that your breath is fresh.
3. Praise her for her newly purchased boots or earrings, and tell her that you really like this style or color. But remember that just one compliment is enough. Don't overdo it. What should I do after the compliment.
4. If you have a car to drive her home, you don't need to get off the car to see her off. Just sit in the car and watch her walk into the lobby or hallway. Passively opening the car door for her and hinting at herself that she wants to go up and drink is a taboo for those who are playing with ambiguity!
5. There is no need to include any reason for asking her to eat, drink coffee, eat ice cream, or go to a bar, just like an ordinary friend. If she takes the initiative to pay the bill once out of every five times, then let her do it - she pays herself every time, so that people may misunderstand you as pursuing her, and some girls may also feel uneasy.
6. Pay attention to her health condition. Many girls have minor stomach problems. Find out what medication they usually take when they feel pain, and then, coincidentally, prepare a bottle in the drawer of the office or in the storage compartment of the carriage. Be careful not to confuse menstrual pain and stomach pain, as the positions where they cover the pain are significantly different.
7. When two people are together, try to avoid going to places with poor lighting. Remember that you are playing in ambiguous and dimly lit places, such as cinemas, restaurants, and parks at night, which can make a girl feel confused and think that you are pursuing her.
8. Ambiguous words and jokes must be spoken on WeChat or online, never in person, nor on the phone! In addition, all ambiguous jokes must be converted into normal topics through an appropriate means. Improper interruptions can also cause misunderstandings - of course, a beautiful misunderstanding can occur once a week, but not more than once.
9. If she has a boyfriend, she must not say anything that is detrimental to their relationship. When they encounter a crisis in their relationship, she even needs to help her analyze and solve the problem - but it is important to grasp the degree and blindly advise her to reunite with her boyfriend, which can sometimes lead to strong dissatisfaction from her for some reason!
10. Take the initiative to help her carry things and touch her hand like a dragonfly in the water; When walking together, it's natural to gently touch her shoulder or arm with the movement of swinging your arm - pay attention to the number of times, usually twice within half an hour is the limit!
11. If invited to accompany her shopping, while knowing her preferences, carefully help her choose one to three clothing options. Then, when she leaves the fitting room, sincerely praise her. If it's a holiday outside of Valentine's Day, you can also consider quietly buying a small accessory (such as a wristband or scarf) when she enters the fitting room and giving it to her when she comes home, And tell her that this thing matches the clothes she bought today.
12. Don't describe what kind of girl you like in front of her, this is a taboo for flirts - whether you describe her or not, the result is not conducive to maintaining an ambiguous relationship.
13. For you who are playing ambiguous, some outdoor activities are not suitable for you to engage in alone with her, such as swimming (including water parks) and camping.
14. A man who plays with ambiguity always needs to take the initiative, which means that once she makes an ambiguous joke with you, she immediately changes her question and goes back to it in a different way. Then, before she can answer, she quickly says, "How could this be possible?" and then bursts into a hearty "haha" laugh three times.
15. Take care of your lower body and remember that you are only playing with ambiguity, not deceit. Since you don't want to give someone a future, taking advantage of them emotionally is already your moral bottom line as a man. Don't harm them physically again.
16. Finally, confirm if your mind is capable of withstanding the so-called ambiguity. Playing with ambiguity is not easy, and many people end up losing both parties or having to accept the other party.
At the same time, many brothers accidentally fall in love while being ambiguous. Since they are officially dating a girl, they need to be responsible for the other person. There are some reasons that the girl hopes you can understand.
1. I shouted 'no', but it's not 'no'. I asked you to exert more force.
2. Yes, no, whatever.
3. What I mean by 'get lost' is actually 'come and hug me'.
4. I am not the machine you brought home to have children with, and besides, I cannot determine gender.
5. If you praise me a little more about my beauty, we can have fewer arguments between us! ╭(╯^╰)╮
6. If I say 'nothing', that means' something '!! Why else would I say 'nothing' if I'm fine!!
7. I like luxury goods, but it's not that I can't live without them. I'm happy to have them, but it's definitely not worth the time I spent with you.
8. Don't take women's angry words too seriously when they are with their aunts.
9. Calling you to mop the floor doesn't mean you just have to mop it, it's about mopping it! Do it! Clean!
10. Don't promise casually, disappointment is really the biggest killer of breakups.
11. I am a unique and unique woman. Not a representative of the group called "women".
12. I am such a person... I have so many shortcomings that I am deadly. It may be exposed in front of you. Please bear with me more.
13. Except for her own son, no woman's youth is obligated to accompany a boy to become a man.
14. My trust in you is a prerequisite for my love for you. This trust does not only refer to whether you have cheated, but also to my respect for your complete personality and affirmation of your existence. Once I don't trust you, love gradually disappears.
15. No one is stupid, how much love you have, how sincere you are, women can feel it. It's just a part of not talking and a part of deceiving oneself.
16. When I cry in front of you, it's not your fault. It just means that you make me feel at ease. When there are negative emotions, I only hope to cry with peace of mind. He will accompany me and won't look down on any of my weaknesses. Such existence itself is equivalent to all comfort.
17. We all have a past, I just ask about your past, and you don't care about me either.
18. The least promising man is the one who steps on his own woman's face to earn face. I can give you face outside, but it doesn't mean you can disrespect me. I can accept that you don't have money, but it doesn't mean you can feel at ease and not make progress. I am not your vassal, but a companion who has equal status with you.
19. Don't dismiss me as childish, I can only use my brain when I'm unfamiliar.
20. When a woman is digging her heart, lungs, and liver for you, it's best to make a choice quickly, immediately, and clearly, whether to "cherish" or "refuse". Don't wait for a woman to completely give up and then turn around for an opportunity.
The sexiest part of a man is his brain, not his face.
