Post Date December, 03 2023
No couple does not fight. This is the experience of all "people who have come here". However, some couples have to wave their hands and say "Bye bye"; However, some couples can fall in love with each other more and more, and break understanding in the quarrel, and the emotional index increases.
A man marries a woman because of love. Before marriage, the two only need to consider each other. Of course, the possibility of two people quarreling is less. However, after marriage, the two people have to face the problems of their children and their parents. They have more things to consider, and the possibility of quarrel has also increased. If two people do not grasp the scale of the quarrel, then two people may be separated because of the quarrel, and then two people will fight when they meet. It is a pity that a good marriage will disappear.
After a quarrel between husband and wife, we should reconcile as a wife.
1. Find the reason for the quarrel between two people
Only by figuring out why two people quarrel can we find a reasonable way to solve the problem. It's also the man's fault, maybe the woman's fault. Only by finding out the source can two people connect their thinking to the same line. Otherwise, the apology of two people without any reason will only aggravate the misunderstanding between the two people, and then the quarrel will become more and more serious.
2. Give the man some space after the fight
After many couples have quarreled, the man will just sit on the sofa and smoke. The woman will only sit and cry and complain about the man. This will only make the other party's anger rise. It is suggested that after the quarrel, women can find good sisters to go shopping, so that they and the other party have space to calm down. When both of them are quiet, we can find the crux of their quarrel. When both parties or one of them think clearly and know where they are wrong, they will naturally take the initiative to admit their mistakes to the other party, or they can calmly analyze the problem together and resolve the conflict.
When a woman quarrels with her husband, there are three things she can't do.
1. Do not attack the shortcomings of your husband, nor greet his ancestors.
When a person attacks your weakness, will you be angry? On the same road, when you quarrel with your husband, you exaggerate his shortcomings and keep talking about it. How can he not be angry? Besides, it's not normal for you to not be angry when you have asked people about their ancestors all the time.
So, as a wife, when a woman quarrels with her husband, she should not amplify his shortcomings. She should talk about the matter as it is and not talk about irrelevant topics, otherwise it will only become more and more fierce.
2. Don't run away from home at any time when quarrelling
Some women like to run away from home after a quarrel. They either go back to their parents' home or find their girlfriends. In this way, you can leave without saying hello, in addition to worrying the man. After that, the man who will pick you up will be humiliated, because when you go back to your mother's house or your girlfriend's place, you will naturally tell them about your quarrel. In order to support you, when they meet the man, they will inevitably scold. The man can tolerate it twice at a time, but who can stand it if he often does?
And if you do this often, it will make your man leave a bad impression on your family, and the villagers will point out. This will make men lose face, and then only aggravate the gap between you, and divorce will become a matter of time.
3. Don't fight in front of children without fear
Children are young. If they often see their parents quarreling, it is not conducive to their psychological development. Parents who often look at each other angrily will become very irascible. After the parents quarrel, both of them are in a bad mood and will naturally take out their anger on the child. This will exert undue pressure on the child, causing him to grow up in fear of being scolded every day. The child who grows up in such an environment will become very weak and sluggish, afraid of contact with others, and afraid of being scolded for what he has done wrong.
A good way for women to avoid quarrels with their husbands
In fact, the method is very simple, that is to think more from the perspective of the husband. Don't blame each other all the time for one thing. Let them live under your rude and aggressive language. Even if a man can bear it any longer, she can't help scolding herself loudly every day. In addition to being uncomfortable in the heart, it will also be humiliating. After all, when the woman scolds loudly every day, the neighbor next door can always hear it several times.
In addition, we should learn to play coquettish properly. Men like gentle women, as long as you put down your figure and treat him gently. Of course, he is also embarrassed to be angry with you.
Psychologists suggest that in this case, instead of angrily accusing him of being too impolite to your friend, it is better to calmly reason with him. For example, "If you disappear without saying hello, it's really difficult for me to do it, because there are many topics about you to talk about." - In this way, you will become a victim instead of a hysterical accuser, which will also lay a good foundation for further communication between you.
