Post Date December, 03 2023
When couples get along, it's hard to avoid being offended by joking. Perhaps you can joke at home any way you like, but exposing your husband's "short" in front of outsiders can cause problems. Don't believe it, take a look at the "pain points" that the wives in the article have encountered with their husbands.
"I absolutely don't want to beat women, but I must say that women are often unwise.". Husband and wife are trivial, and family routines are short, making it a headache. If the world is dominated by major issues such as country, nationality, and territory, there will definitely be no quarrel between couples. Arguments and even divorces are often caused by trivial matters such as trivial matters. The following three examples, discussed in detail, fully illustrate the role of such chicken feathers and garlic peel. In my concept, a woman's mind tends to be simple.
Example 1: Husband's belly is greatly bald and his hair is white
Lao Wang is a university professor who experienced significant physiological changes at the age of 40, with a large belly, beginning to lose hair, and returning to white. His wife is also considered a cultural person, and she has nothing important to do at work every day except talk with a few women about her children and husband, and they are very happy when talking. After she found out about her husband's condition, she began to be in a hurry, either pulling out white hair or ordering him to run and exercise to lose weight. When the door was closed and there were only two people left, the man obeyed and obedient. He also volunteered to pull out his white hair several times, and took the initiative to run and exercise in the yard after dinner. But soon, the couple quarrelled.
Upon enquiry, it turned out that it was a woman in front of others, especially a few women in their unit, who jokingly said that his belly was too big and unattractive, and that his hair was unreasonably white, and he quickly became an old man with a bald head. The man was angry on the spot, unable to contain it, and made a big noise.
Comments: With a large belly and white hair, there is nothing at all, and no one knows unless they say it. However, if others don't say it (others generally don't say it), their wives will be happy to joke about it, and there must be a problem, because these are all content that undermines his "reputation" and makes him feel ashamed, especially among other men with small bellies and white hair.
Example 2: Husband likes to write about women
Lao Zhao is a friend of mine and a cultural person who loves to write essays and documentary literature. He often publishes reports or comments in newspapers and magazines on interviews with current popular female writers and singers. The wife may be slightly sour and often says at home that her husband is "lecherous.". After hearing this, Lao Zhao chuckled, quite like a gentleman, and stopped speaking. Later, when friends gathered and everyone ate together, many men and women praised Lao Zhao for his ability to write, fluency in writing, and earning royalties. My wife was also in a bad mood and spoke of her husband in front of everyone. At this point, whether she wanted to be humorous or express something else, the woman said, "My husband likes to write about women." Lao Zhao suddenly turned pale and had a fit on the spot, causing a row that greatly overshadowed the party.
Comments: What a writer writes depends on his personal situation. It's not easy to write anything well. Saying in front of the public that his husband likes to write about women inevitably reminds him of saying that he is lecherous and then refers to him as a rogue. He also believes that literature and art have been spoiled by these words, and finally feels that his writing activities have completely tarnished these words. There is no need to hurry.
Example 3: Husband Delicious Snacks
Lao Liu, who is also my friend, is still a literate person. He works in a newspaper office, works as a deputy editor in chief, likes to eat at home, and his wife is willing to buy delicious food to serve him. His wife teased him at home for "delicious" and even gave him the nickname "Mr. Yummy". One day, while chatting with someone on the phone from his wife, Leng Buding said, "My husband is delicious, so I'll call him Mr. Yummy." Lao Liu, who was sitting at the table eating, jumped up and retaliated on the spot, arguing incessantly. Later, it got out of hand and the two divorced.
There are too many examples of this type, so I won't enumerate them here. Those who quarrel, oppose goals, and divorce are all caused by these chicken feathers and garlic skins.
Women often complain that men are like white eyed wolves, with unpredictable moods and moods. When they say "delicious" 10 minutes ago, they don't get angry. When they say "delicious" 10 minutes later, they get angry. So ups and downs, but
It's true, but there's a reason behind it. It's just that women don't understand men.
Comment: To let others know that they are "delicious" is not elegant. After all, eating is not a high-level thing, and what's more, "delicious" can be followed by "lazy". Men don't like to hear it the most. If their wives say it to others, or regardless of the location, it will certainly cause misunderstanding.
The last thing men want their women to say in front of others is "cowardly", "not earning money", "others don't like", "not promising", "just knowing to eat". This kind of talk is better than saying that he steals, kills, and shamelessly.
Men are the hardest working, and those who don't make money are all thinking about how to make money. In this situation, if a woman sprinkles pepper noodles indiscriminately, it's really unwise.
Life is always about men and women. How can we avoid conflicts and noise? In my opinion, this is a question of cultivation and knowledge. Don't think that a man has only one face, and there are many kinds of his faces. In ordinary times, it is necessary to make more speculation, analyze the power of words, and refrain from speaking freely if you are unsure. Some humor and bad humor can backfire.
Actually, you don't understand a man's heart
I have a feeling that women are fools in families that lead to these problems, and they should be primarily responsible. A woman has not seriously speculated about a man's thoughts. She always thinks that a man is his own property, his own private property, and he can't do anything he says. There are even women who treat their husbands as if they were sons. They speak freely and tactfully, saying whatever they want, always thinking that they will not undermine their iron walled relationship.
In fact, women are wrong, and it's a big mistake.
Men are indeed the private property of women, and they are willing to be the private property of their relatives. Moreover, when a man is surly, he really acts like an obedient child, obeying women's orders. Women are most proud at this time. When a woman is proud, she begins to forget her mind, and when her brain is short, something happens.
Women rarely consider the dignity of their husbands. Men are animals that defend their dignity more than women. A man is a higher social animal, and he operates in society every day. His social relationships, the "public image" he establishes, and the "prestige" he enjoys among friends do not occur at home. After their predecessors in social life, men always show their best qualities to others, hiding their bad things and hiding them from others as much as possible. The more harmful things are exposed, the more dignity a man can't improve, the more taste he can't form, and of course, the less status he has in society. Therefore, men contribute positive, upward, revolutionary, moral, and heroic things to society, while leaving their relaxed, lustful, and immoral things to their families. Women often regard the impression of men at home as a universal measure, which is a big mistake. When a man comes into the social environment of "after his predecessors", he must display his "social image" and defend his "value" and "dignity". Any remarks that undermine his image will deeply anger him. Women must be cautious at this time.
(Intern Editor: Cai Junyi)
