A wife needs her husband's care and care to be more considerate, gentle and virtuous; A husband needs his wife's respect before he feels dignified and courageous. Therefore, the wife needs the husband to "coax" and the husband needs the wife to "hold". Couples can only get the ideal return with such mutual efforts.
The wife was coaxed out
Women rely on coaxing because women always need a feeling of foam to nourish their sensitive and fragile nerves to meet their vanity. For a smart man, you can say that she is not smart enough, but you can't say that she is not beautiful; You can say she is stupid, but you can't say she is not charming.
In fact, a woman's mind is like a flower, which needs to be watered diligently. Proper praise, even with a little water, can soak her thirsty heart. In the final analysis, the money a man earns is for women to spend. His value is not only reflected in the success of his career, but also reflected in the smile of women's satisfaction. Women are relatively easy to be satisfied, and men can handle everything with a touch of "lip". Their feelings will also increase.
The husband is "praised"
Men need to be praised. Because men are face-loving people, this is their male hormones. A man without face means losing his temperament and demeanor. A wise woman should learn to give him face. You can say he is not handsome, but you can't say he is not "manly".
In the daily life of husband and wife, women should learn to "hold" their husbands and give them confidence. There was a saying that the strongest people always have a more vulnerable side, and so do men. They are struggling in different industries for their families and to realize their own values. However, different environments, different opportunities and individual differences of different knowledge make men uneven. In the world of men, there is always a competitive comparison between "there are people outside the world and there are days outside the world". After all, there are only a few people who have the advantages of timing, location and human harmony. Most of them have achieved success through struggle, but the degree of success is also different.
No matter what success a man has achieved, he is eager to get his wife's understanding, affirmation and comfort when he comes home. At this time, it doesn't need too much, just a word "you are wonderful" to comfort his body and mind.
(Intern editor: Lai Jiaxing)