A superior husband who comes home to help his wife with household chores. He will think that his wife is busy with work and household chores, which will definitely be hard. When he comes home from work, he will sympathize with her hard work and assist her in managing household affairs. Such a husband must be a superior and good husband.
A moderate husband, drinking tea and reading newspapers at home, praising his wife. A husband who doesn't know how to help with household chores, even though he drinks tea and reads newspapers when he returns home, at least his mouth will praise his wife and thank her for her efforts. So, no matter how hard the wife works, she can still enjoy it.
A lowly husband who comes home domineering, disdaining the east and the west, with a posture of being the most hardworking and considering himself the most devoted to the family. Either the wife's cooking is not good, or the wife's inability to dress up is not pleasing to the eye.
A first-class wife, with a clean and virtuous family. As the saying goes, "A good wife in a family is like a good prime minister in a state." A virtuous wife can open up resources and reduce expenses, manage the family properly, maintain a clean and tidy environment, have a warm, respectful and gentle attitude, be thoughtful and considerate, and behave with kindness, filial piety, and obedience, so that the gentleman can have no worries.
A moderate wife, comforting and praising her husband's hard work. Shakespeare said, "A good wife not only handles household chores, but also has three identities: a loving mother, a good companion, and a lover.
A lowly wife is always nagging, mean and selfish. Not only is she not good at managing a family, but when her husband returns home after a hard day, she will also chatter incessantly. She either disdains his profession for making too little money, or complains about living poorly or dressing poorly, which will only make her husband feel like home is in prison.
Many failed marriages are due to the inability to understand each other's hard work and appreciate their efforts. So, the way for a couple starts with mutual appreciation and understanding. When encountering difficulties and obstacles, they can help each other overcome obstacles and leave together. Only then can the marriage be happy. Emotional communication should be based on the principle of fairness and justice; Language communication should be magnanimous in terms of understanding and tolerance; The interaction between people and me is natural without violating reason; The use of money should be based on living within one's means.
(Intern Editor: Chen Hao)