Post Date December, 03 2023
Thinking about how to build confidence, I remember a famous saying that was once popular on the internet: "Read more books, read more newspapers, eat less snacks, and sleep more." So how to build your confidence and increase the success rate of saving love?
A while ago, my best friend's ex boyfriend found me and he wanted me to come forward and persuade my best friend to come back to him. They have been in love for several years, and her ex boyfriend has a relatively weak personality. One day, her girlfriend joked about breaking up, and under the catalysis of accumulated conflicts, they had a big argument, ultimately leading to the breakup. After breaking up, the ex boyfriend couldn't accept the sudden absence of a girlfriend in his daily life, so he kept trying to please the other person and begged them to return to his side, resulting in even worse results. Driven by emotions, the ex boyfriend made dozens of phone calls in one go, but his contact information was hacked by my girlfriend. Later, he was also hacked on WeChat. He even ambushed his girlfriend's residence, but ultimately failed. So he approached me and requested my help.
Upon hearing this story, my heart really felt very sad: things had already progressed to this point, and he didn't even realize his own problem. I still think it's because I didn't perform well enough to touch my girlfriend's heart. Finally, he sought my help, which indicates that he no longer has confidence in his own ability to save his girlfriend. Even he himself no longer believes that he is worthy of being loved, so why should the other person return to his side. How to establish one's own confidence to save love?
Firstly, learn to build confidence, and first of all, know oneself and the other.
Many people always encounter obstacles when trying to save their love, When we asked him, "Do you know what your girlfriend needs the most?" He said, "Of course she does. She just wants to be quiet, think about our relationship, and see if we are suitable." I then asked, "Is your behavior making her quiet?" He immediately retorted, "How can you really make her quiet? If she is really quiet, we will be finished." We cannot make her think calmly, we must pursue her relentlessly, This directly indicates that the parties involved are not confident that the other party will persist in choosing themselves after calm thinking. In fact, the parties involved must know what the other party really needs, and they must silently do this well, so that the other party will actively return to their side.
Secondly, it is important to pay attention to the process of redemption and believe that hard work pays off for those who have a heart.
Many people always hesitate to ask, "Am I doing this right?" or "Can I succeed in saving?" If all your actions are just to bring the other person back to you, not really out of love, then the plot of eagerly hoping for the other person to come back to you is like a hook, which can make the other person feel particularly uncomfortable. So in the process of redemption, one must wholeheartedly use love to redeem the other party. If you are sincere, believe that the other person will come back to you soon.
When saving love, we must establish our own confidence, which will make us twice the result with half the effort.
