Post Date December, 03 2023
In life, we must understand some principles in order to smooth the bumpy road. Deliver the core message they want to deliver: Help a boy become more like a man. Let's take a look together!
1. Meeting strangers
The significance of shaking hands with strangers can provide a preliminary judgment on the personality characteristics of the other person; Whether the other person is looking at you can tell his enthusiasm and confidence in his personality; Dressing affects your first impression. Suits can give you a sense of professional respect more than jeans. Whether the first address to others is simple or open can show a willingness to interact with each other.
2. Life example
Our parents and friends have expectations for us and will encourage us to grow. Encouragement is an important driving force for our life development, but in many ways we still need role models, so they provide us with many concrete references on how to grow.
3. Behavioral self-discipline
We need to play and pursue what we want, but we also need to learn self-discipline - planning for our future, planning actions from now on to achieve such plans, overcoming some of our inertia, and adhering to certain exercises and actions.
4. Positive attitude
The problem is not the size, but the attitude. We are motivated by positive attitudes, and our own positive attitudes can affect many people. When we encounter negative attitudes from others, it may just indicate that they have certain problems and need more positive help from us.
5. Change and cannot change
Some things we cannot change, such as people's skin color and gender, such as the weather and parents, but some things we can change, such as our fear or lack of understanding of certain things, such as when we are not clear about our hobbies, we need to define what kind of problems are at hand, consult with mentors, adjust our mindset for things that cannot be changed, and determine action plans for things that can be changed.
6. Learning style
We may be different types of learners, and we can learn from our parents, schools, and people around society. We need to understand what kind of learners we are and actively explore different ways of learning.
7. Rejected
We may feel that for various reasons, such as someone doesn't like us, or someone has had a rejection experience. Rejection doesn't necessarily mean you're not good, it's just someone else's point of view. When encountering rejection, we should not simply react emotionally, but reflect on the reasons, especially not simply continue such rejection to others.
8. Foolish behavior
On behalf of our unwise and common sense violations, we need to try our best to avoid such behaviors, including referring to the opinions of our elders, strengthening self-discipline, and strengthening reflection. In particular, we should not do anything that openly conflicts with the law and public morality.
9. Temper loyalty
Loyalty is an act of loyal commitment and honest feedback. When we receive help from others, receive help in the community, choose long-term cooperation with partners, and labor relations, these times we are all involved in the issue of loyalty and feedback. Although not all times we can be loyal, loyalty and receiving loyalty are a great asset in our lives.
10. Tit for tat
Many times, boys encounter things that require revenge, which can be minor or major, ranging from fights to abuse. "But what we need to learn self-discipline is that we can never retaliate fairly, nor can we settle things because of retaliation. Perhaps that will open a long-term vicious circle.". The best way for us to balance things is that we may have suffered some losses in some areas, but it has not hindered my growth and success.
11. Academic achievements
In the United States, skilled people earn more money than unskilled people, and school is the main place to learn skills. Therefore, parents hope that their children can study hard and have a good career in the future. Therefore, pay attention to school learning, but at the same time, if your academic performance is not good, it is necessary to reflect on the reasons and improve learning methods.
12. Control anger
When we are angry, we become emotional, and our way of thinking is no longer as usual. Many times, we lose and weaken our goals and normal rules. The way to learn to control is that we can respond and communicate, rather than simply retaliate, and even need to calm down for a while before dealing with the problem.
13. A mouthful sports car
It is also common for boys to brag or talk big, because boys have their own pride, but speaking big often brings us trouble and can harm some people or ourselves. It's not a bad thing to shut up properly. What we need to do is to say less that doesn't make people.
14. The people who discipline us
Boys are naughty and often take risks to make trouble. It is our boy's good fortune to have someone discipline us with strength and wisdom in life. Uneducated children have always been a regret and dislike in everyone's mind.
15. A good teacher and helpful friend
A mentor can help us avoid many detours. He often encourages us and shares our ways forward. We should be honest with such mentors and friends and develop various types of cooperation. At the same time, we should also realize that they are only human beings, understand their shortcomings, and not blindly worship everything they have.
16. Television and Reality
Television is an interesting invention, but we also need to know that it is not all reality. We should always pay attention to questioning the facts and paying attention to reality. Especially for those who have a conclusion based on impression, we cannot get that wind is rain, but we should ask a few more questions about why.
17. The joys and sorrows of the family
Many people are happy because of their families, but many also suffer because of their families. What we need to learn is to love our family, but not to love all their behaviors. We cannot change the behavior of everyone, even if they are our family. We need to keep us away from the bad behavior of our family and maintain hope for possible improvement in our family.
18. Treat girls
Men will spend time researching and pursuing girls, but they should also remember some rules: treat them with kindness and respect; Give them sincere praise; Treat them as if you expected a man to treat your mother; No matter how angry you are, you can't beat women; As long as you learn to serve women, you can get everything you expect.
19. Treat injustice
"Being able to bend and stretch is easier said than done, but we still have to do it. When we are wronged, we may all have a heart to kill, but if we keep our mouths shut and calm down, as time goes by, we will know that those offenses are actually the same.".
20. Act recklessly
Boys tend to act recklessly, often because they are trying to attract attention, either with a little understanding, or without knowing the consequences, or making friends carelessly. Pay attention to these situations and pay attention to improvement.
21. Sample learning
Imagine your goal in life, and then learn from others. With whom you can learn, there will be enough people in our lives to emulate.
22. Moral constraints
Moral constraints make us appear cultured, and they also make society orderly. However, morality is often invisible and not so significant. We learn moral constraints from family upbringing, as well as from the paradigm of upbringing from other people we respect, and then we pay attention to grasping appropriate moderation in our behavior.
23. Break Bad Habits
Bad habits limit our growth and negatively affect others. We need to believe that we can improve, find trusted friends to supervise us, choose new good practices, and persist in exercising new habits for a certain length of time.
24. Adaptation differences
In people of different races and cultures, learn to use appropriate language and communication methods carefully, value our way of thinking, pursuing goals, and helping each other, while ignoring other factors, so that we have more identity.
25. Quiet down
"We may be too active. Sometimes we need to learn to be quiet, use our spiritual thoughts to temporarily isolate ourselves from others, set certain tasks for ourselves, and then go out. Imagine how it feels to relax after completing tasks?"?
26. Facing the Blind Area
Everyone has their own blind spots, and we may not understand. We let our mentors or mentors help us face such blind spots and strive to improve rather than avoid them. In fact, even our teachers have their blind spots.
27. Life Ideal
At different stages of life, we have different things we want to do. 5-year-old children will pay more attention to the things around them that can impress them. When you are 17 years old, your mind will focus more on the things you are good at doing. We have a variety of things that we can imagine and pursue, among which we will choose things that may be more focused on our efforts, try to collect as much information as possible about the things you may want to go to, and then make a decision. When you make a decision, you should carefully prepare, so that you can avoid becoming a person without professional happiness.
28. Respect for truth
There are truths around us that parents or others have summarized based on experience or lessons, and if we do not respect them, we may suffer consequences. We can demand to know the causes and consequences of these truths, but do not rush to violate them.
29. Partner pressure
"The pressure placed on you by partner groups can be good or bad. Be wary of children who have no vision, no plans, low self-esteem, are bad friends, and do not receive parental support. In other cases, interactions with partners are more benign: having confidence and future goals, not imitating the bad behavior of other partners, not competing materially with partners, not simply comparing with partners but comparing with their own role models," Pursue high standards of what you do.
