There is a saying in English: If a woman wants to please a man, she must cook him delicious food. It is true. As far as I know, relatively happy marriages are both husband and wife who are looking for delicious food everywhere with relish. If you can't grasp his mind, it's better to grasp his stomach.
Grab a man's stomach first
Men's stomachs are very important to women, and women sometimes have to change their tastes to cater to men. I know many Chinese women who marry foreigners. They must have never touched foreign food such as cheese, but now they attach great importance to finding shops with good cheese. When friends eat together, they can also sing and eat cheese everywhere, and sometimes they can't stop praising.
A woman who has the spirit of studying her husband's "foreign appetite" has also learned to match cheese with wine, making everyone think that her "stomach" has really "married the chicken and the dog".
On the contrary, many women fail to understand the importance of men's "stomach" to their relationship. I know a pair of aunts and uncles who share the same ideals. Both of them are old revolutionaries. They have come to fight all the way, but they can't live together. The reason is that my uncle is from Shandong and my aunt is from Jiangsu. When I was in Yan'an, there was nothing delicious to eat. It was good to fill my stomach. But as soon as the liberation was over, the material life was enriched, and there was nothing to eat, but the two people could not get along. My uncle wants to eat noodles and raw onions and garlic. My aunt and he haven't found that she can't stand the taste of onions and garlic for so many years. My aunt likes rice and sprinkles sugar when cooking. Like all women in Jiangnan, she also likes snacks. My uncle thinks these are too "petty bourgeoisie". Because they are taking part in the revolution at the same time, so the level is the same. Auntie has not let her "stomach" obey uncle's "stomach" concept at all - both are "chief stomach". Why should my eating method obey you? Auntie believes that the secular lifestyle is male chauvinism. She always imposes her favorite food on others. If she does not obey, she will also wear a political cap. Over time, my aunt and uncle will not eat together. My uncle and his Shandong comrades-in-arms ate scallions dipped in sauce in the noodle shop outside all night, and my aunt made some sweet cooking stoves for me at home. Later, because my uncle smelled of scallions every night, my aunt didn't sleep with him. Fortunately, both of them are cadres, and if they have four bedrooms in their family, they can simply have one room for each person.
From this point of view, it is better to tie couples together than to eat. It is difficult to think about what is in the minds of others, whether men or women. But if you can catch his stomach, you will not be far from success.