Husband and wife quarrels are the product of intensified conflicts between both parties, but quarrels are not necessarily a bad thing. As the saying goes, "It's not that enemies don't meet." However, quarrels should have a scale and a bottom line, so that they won't affect feelings.
The scandal spread abroad
The problems that can be solved in the bedroom should not be brought to the living room, and the problems that can be solved in the home should not be spread out. Do not learn from women who are not calm enough, complain everywhere when quarrelling with their husbands, and tell others about their husbands' shortcomings as best they can. This will not only make your husband hold a grudge, but also make others laugh.>> A dangerous relationship that frustrates a couple's emotions
Use your tongue but not your hands
It's okay to move your mouth during a fight, but don't do it. You may feel like a woman and it doesn't weigh much if you fight, but only he knows if it hurts. However, violence always triggers anger, and when anger reaches its peak, even a gentle tap can become a real "war.".
Do not expose any shortcomings
Couples have been together for a long time, and they have a good understanding of each other's shortcomings. It is also the easiest, most crucial, and most emotionally damaging to uncover their shortcomings. Let those shortcomings of each other be understood. Once a quarrel is revealed, the tacit understanding between them will disappear, not only causing serious damage to the self-esteem of both parties, but also potentially severing the bonds of affection between you.
Don't dig up old accounts
When some women quarrel, they like to dig up old accounts and list all the unhappiness in their past lives in an exhaustive list. "But women should not forget that men love face. Doing so will only cause headaches and even feelings of loss of face. Eventually, it will be unbearable, and the relationship between husband and wife will inevitably be damaged.".
(Intern editor: Lai Jiaxing)