Post Date December, 02 2023
Love is always sweet and beautiful, and both male and female friends hope to stay stagnant in love forever. But life can only be more fulfilling after experiencing marriage. Marriage is actually more of a responsibility and the emotional destination of men and women. Therefore, when entering marriage, men and women should maintain a clear mind and not have too many fantasies, so that marriage life can be down-to-earth. However, there are always some men who like to avoid marriage in life. What is the reason for this?
1、 I am too busy with my career to have time for romantic relationships.
Many successful men are so-called golden bachelors, and they don't lack women around them. They just keep avoiding marriage because they are too busy. The territory and field of their careers are constantly expanding, and they are almost too busy to have time for romantic relationships. A man with an overly ambitious career may not have any plans to get married. Even if they want to get married, they will find a career partner so that they have a common topic. Moreover, in order to become a successful or career oriented man's partner, the first step is to be able to help the man, at least this partner should not be a stumbling block to his expansion of career territory.
2、 I value my inner feelings too much and have fantasies about marriage.
Some men care too much about and value their personal inner feelings, and have some kind of fantasy about marriage. Such men are full of avoidance towards marriage. After all, marriage is a trivial matter. When you step into the siege of marriage, all you can hear and see are mundane times such as daily necessities. Moreover, you have to be prepared to spend a lifetime with another person. If this partner is not the one you truly love, then a barely fitting marriage is bound to feel pain and entanglement. So, for men who place too much emphasis on their inner feelings, they are mostly filled with resistance towards marriage. Men who place too much emphasis on their personal feelings often lack tolerance towards their partner, and marriage itself requires mutual tolerance, otherwise it will be unsustainable.
3、 A thoroughly unmarried person who advocates freedom and independence.
The important reason why some men avoid marriage is that they value freedom and independence more than life. As the saying goes, marriage is truly precious, and love is even more valuable. If it is for freedom, both can be thrown away. Some men themselves are completely unmarried, and in their dictionary of life, there is only love and no marriage. They can fully enjoy the sweetness and freedom of love, but they cannot bear the responsibility and trivialities of marriage. Men themselves are young children, and even Jiang Wen said in the latest movie that he is just a child. In terms of emotions, men may never truly mature. This is also a very important reason why men avoid marriage.
The three reasons introduced above are the specific factors that men avoid marriage. In fact, marriage is a reflection of their life after love. Men and women maintain a calm and down-to-earth attitude towards life, and understand and tolerate each other. This way, marriage can also lead a very happy and fulfilling life.
